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Straight up, I just don’t like oral

Giving or getting. I don’t like it, I don’t wanna do it, don’t do it to me. It just kinda grosses me out. And getting it hardly does anything for me. It’s annoying when you’re doing a hookup and they’re like wanting you to use your mouth and you gotta be like haha ummm nahhh…. I really wish it was less of a mainstream fetish. Not just something you’re expected to be into by default.
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pdockal · 56-60, M
Fetish ?????
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@pdockal anti-fetish more like it
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Zeuro

Oral isn't a fetish
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@pdockal how? Just cause it’s normal doesn’t make it not a fetish
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Zeuro

Fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@pdockal yep exactly
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Zeuro

So oral isn't a fetish
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@pdockal you just explained how it is

Fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs

Mouths are not sexual organs
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Zeuro · 26-30, F
@pdockal you know that oral involves all 3, right? 🤦‍♀ burnt
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Zeuro

All 3 ?????
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pdockal · 56-60, M
@Zeuro

Still isn't a fetish
Unless I'm mistaken it only involves mouth & genetals .... 2 not 3
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@pdockal cocks and pussies count separately
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Zeuro

I only have one not both
Therefore one mouth & one genital is 2
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@pdockal you referenced BOTH covk and pussy in your reply, and I mouth before that. Hence, “all 3” because that’s how language works
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Zeuro

Do you have to get the last word ?
I'm done with this as it's not important
I stand by my words
Good luck
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@Zeuro I've never heard oral described as a fetish. But I have noticed a redefinition of the word to mean anything other than regular PIV sex, plus kinks and even preferences. Like my preference for larger women is now a "fetish." I've given up on correcting people.

The original medical definition of "fetish" is a paraphilia where the person is sexually aroused by objects or body parts that are not normally considered sexual, like feet or underwear. Dr. John Money described a man who was aroused by the sight of a safety pin. I suppose if someone is sexually aroused by mouths, that would be a fetish.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@LeopoldBloom I mean, mouths aren’t normally considered sexual, so I’d say it’s a fetish, albeit a very common one
pdockal · 56-60, M
@Zeuro

Fetish is a form of sexual desire in which gratification is strongly linked to a particular object or activity or a part of the body other than the sexual organs

Oral isn't fetish

For once (i hate to admit this) I'm in agreement with @LeopoldBloom

@Zeuro please educate yourself & seek help you need it desperately
@Zeuro If someone is sexually aroused by mouths, that would be a fetish. But using your mouth to pleasure someone, or being pleasured by someone else using their mouth, wouldn't be a fetish. Men who masturbate don't have a hand fetish.
@pdockal She doesn't need "help" just because she doesn't like oral. It's just a preference.
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Zeuro · 26-30, F
@LeopoldBloom that’s not what I’m saying. But using a non sexual body part for pleasure, is in fact a fetish. You just don’t think it’s a fetish because it’s so common. If people used their feet for the same thing, it would be a fetish. A fetish is a fetish regardless of how common said fetish is. And I don’t know why you’re so averse to having it be called a fetish, just because something’s a fetish doesn’t make it bad.