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Straight up, I just don’t like oral

Giving or getting. I don’t like it, I don’t wanna do it, don’t do it to me. It just kinda grosses me out. And getting it hardly does anything for me. It’s annoying when you’re doing a hookup and they’re like wanting you to use your mouth and you gotta be like haha ummm nahhh…. I really wish it was less of a mainstream fetish. Not just something you’re expected to be into by default.
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Richard65 · M
Just curious, you don't feel any pleasure from receiving? Does the gross factor outweigh the pleasurable experience?
in10RjFox · M
@Richard65 cunnilingus is not as bad as fellatio as there is no part going into the mouth. So we cannot compare a gals giving oral to receiving it.

I do know of many males who disgust the sight of Vagina and hence won't even have a look.
Richard65 · M
@in10RjFox you can take the labia into your mouth, it depends on the technique you use. I understand your point, but I was wondering if the received pleasure is negated by Zeuro because the mere idea of cunnilingus grosses her out.
in10RjFox · M
@Richard65 not really.. male gets more pleasure from cunnilingus due to the juice as compared to female from fellatio that becomes mundane toothbrushing.
Richard65 · M
@in10RjFox I think you're misunderstanding my question. Only Zeuro can answer it, because it's about her own opinion on the situation. You're saying the male receives more pleasure when you can really only speak for your own preference, nobody else's.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@Richard65 not really, I need a certain amount of pressure that a tongue can’t provide. It really just doesn’t do much, and with the grossness factor on top, I just don’t like it.
in10RjFox · M
@Richard65 there is something known as generic as against specific. Yes, only she can answer the specific, but anyone can answer the generic.
Richard65 · M
@in10RjFox yes, but you can't answer this particular question generically. The answer relies purely on personal opinion.
in10RjFox · M
@Richard65
if the received pleasure is negated by Zeuro because the mere idea of cunnilingus grosses her out.

This is more a generic question than specific. While she can answer for herself she can't answer for all women.

Received pleasure has nothing to do with a girl's idea of cunnilingus being gross. It's like for some the idea of drinking alcohol maybe gross but they may enjoy when their drink is spiked ..

Like a woman subjected to glory hole cunnilingus may want it as glory hole only and not see the person offering it
Richard65 · M
@in10RjFox I'm not asking her to answer for all women. I'm just asking for HER opinion on HER situation. You completely misunderstand my question. You have no idea of the point I'm making. And that's my opinion of you, not a generic one 😒
in10RjFox · M
@Richard65
It’s annoying when you’re doing a hookup and they’re like wanting you to use your mouth and you gotta be like haha ummm nahhh….

It's indecent to ask personal opinion in a public forum. You probably didn't quite get what she meant by the above in her post.

She hates the topic coming up as part of her hookup conversation more than the oral itself and she being judged for her reaction.

Hope you know about gaining carnal knowledge.
Richard65 · M
@in10RjFox dude, she literally made a public post about the subject, so asking her personal opinion is part of the interaction between people on here. You don't seem to understand much about communication. You're reaching too far in trying to justify your error. Give it up. Move on.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@in10RjFox
She hates the topic coming up as part of her hookup conversation more than the oral itself and she being judged for her reaction.

Dude I don’t know where the heck you’re getting this from. I don’t like either but I 100% hate the actual oral more than just talking about it. What a weird disagreement you’re having with @Richard65
Richard65 · M
@Zeuro apologies, I didn’t want your post to create a spat like this. I appreciate your opinion. Best wishes 🙏
in10RjFox · M
@Zeuro 😂😂 from your own words..
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@Richard65 oh lol it’s not on you dude no worries
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@in10RjFox I know what I said, and I did not say that. So I’ll ask again, where are you getting that from??? Because I never said what you’re acting like I said
in10RjFox · M
@Zeuro I said 'you meant' and not 'you said' ..

So let me ask you the other way.

In case you were okay in giving and receiving oral, would you be okay if someone asks you about it during hookup?
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@in10RjFox yes, I’d have no problem with someone asking about it. I don’t know why you thought otherwise
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@in10RjFox also, idk what you’re talking about with this “you said” vs “you meant”, your exact words were “from your own words” so you literally said neither
in10RjFox · M
@Zeuro
It’s annoying when you’re doing a hookup and they’re like wanting you to use your mouth and you gotta be like haha ummm nahhh…

These are your words I referred to.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@in10RjFox It’s annoying because I don’t want to do it and I have to explain that to them. If I wanted to do it and they asked I’d have no issue with that.


Does that clear things up? Because you were clearly confused.
in10RjFox · M
@Zeuro Yes. You have clarified. You were talking about you and not about females in general. That's what I meant about generic and specific. I was not confused at all, it was you who made a confusing statement, for which I sought clarification.
Zeuro · 26-30, F
@in10RjFox “I’m not confused, you just confused me” 🤦‍♀

Burnt af lmao
in10RjFox · M
@Zeuro you making a confusing statement, doesn't mean you are confused.. 🤣😀
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