What are your biggest concerns about sex?

I don't know if they are concerns but the long absence could have an effect. But I'm a giver so it may or may not matter. I do know that as I aged, it became more of a mental thing and much less physical.

I have two primary concerns.

The first is not having it. It's been a while. It affects my self-esteem and causes me to not feel desired.

The second is not being good enough at it. At disappointing someone I might be with. If I were having it, I would call it performance anxiety, but that implies chances to perform.

Is there a specific way that self-esteem is holding you back? Is the hysterectomy a significant part of that, or just a milestone?

The fear never being desired again. I’m concerned that my loneliness without the intimacy in my marriage will be what breaks me.

If someone is worried about you having had a hysterectomy and whatever scars there may be, they aren't worth dating.

We all have our scars.

Since all of my sex has been with my wife and we are happy with what we do, my biggest concern at our age is when it will stop. The end will come, and it is getting closer.

All you need is the right man.....or woman (whatever floats your boat) to give you back your self esteem. You just need someone who can put it down on you like you deserve it. And once they do that, the mere thought of them will have you flowing like a faucet.

Confidence / How much she enjoys it and still like me and want to do it again with me.

My appearance. I don't really seek out sex anymore because I don't want people to see how I look naked anyway.

Get back out there woman! You both deserve and need someone who will patch you up from your numerous trips and falls and who will put up with your dad jokes.

Actually I’m frightened by the thought that the passion for sex dies out after a certain amount of time in a relationship 🤷🏻‍♂

usually the first time with a new partner, especially one that i'm quite interested in.

That it would be involuntary. 😐
I'm almost asexual. I don't have any motivation to seek it.

Traumatizing a partner

Performance anxiety

that someone might offer it to me and i'll have to change all my plans

Self esteem. Even now.

I’m afraid I’ll never have it again

How strong the bed is.

I don't really have any concerns about sex. Not on my end anyways.

She doesn't show up

Being inadequate in every way

Injuries mostly.

You're so pretty you should have all the dates! Battle scars only make you sexier! ❤

When I was having sex it was performance.

The dude's ability to actually care enough to satisfy me

That the woman will see the size of my penis, get scared and run off yelling, "that thing is TOO BIG FOR ME!!!!"