PromiseProtectionProvision · 46-50New
That's the only way to fall in love. I fell in love with my husband because of his spirit and love of life. I wasn't attracted to him physically but that didn't take long to develop. I'm absolutely blessed to have fallen in love with his heart, mind and soul. The physical appearance aka the body caught up afterwards.
Nightwings · 31-35, F
Yes. My biggest ever crush was on a girl who wasn't really conventionally attractive, as she was very overweight. She had beautiful light blue eyes and naturally blonde hair though. I was just crazy about her, I loved everything about her. Just seeing her silhouette in the distance on my way to school, made my heart flutter. She was incredibly witty, kind, and just her. 🩷
Adogslife · 61-69, M
2nd wife is personality first, looks second. My first wife was the opposite. I’m happier now than I’ve ever been.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
If you have a vibe, some good conversation you won't even think about looks . You will just be thinking about that person and how they made you feel.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
No, it's always the whole package or nothing. If I admire someone's personality, I can value them just enough without any romantic or sexual feelings.
ViciDraco · 41-45, M
The majority of my relationships were formed online and we bonded over discussions before ever actually seeing each other. In fact, my very first relationship was that way.
RubySoo · 56-60, F
Everytime!
val70 · 51-55
Yep, but personality, intelligence and looks togther blew me away... still that now
Monalisasmith86 · 41-45, F
Yes but he’s both empathetic good looking and funny and has a nice penis too, actually he wasn’t that good looking at first then I thought I was being too picky , because I am , but realised he’s very handsome and sexy
Wiseacre · F
Certainly!
4meAndyou · F
Usually, when I am falling for someone, it's all about their looks or their sexy eyes or their smile or how much fun they are...or a massive combination of all of the above.
bijouxbroussard · F
Yes. Often their personality has made them look better to me, too…
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Not fallen in love but very attracted to someone intellectually
Tumbleweed · F
Yes. Have you?
@Tumbleweed yes
fun4us2b · M
No but next time I will try
hunkalove · 70-79, M
Your mom.
AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
@hunkalove 🤣🤣🤣🤣 behave!
fanuc2013 · 51-55, F
That's the way it should be!
There is no other way for me
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Yes, but they weren't ugly. They were a source of hope
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
For sure. Personalities clicking are a huge percentage of it.
Monalisasmith86 · 41-45, F
@Ambroseguy80 yesssss
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
They combine to be the perfect match.
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
Yes once though they were still gorgeous.
hartfire · 61-69
Every time.
I don't trust good looks.
I don't trust good looks.
YoMomma ·
Yeah cause i never even saw his looks 😅
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Of course. Looks are third in the hierarchy.
Personality
Capability
Looks
Personality
Capability
Looks
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Nightwings · 31-35, F
@GuyWithOpinions I would say it's the other way around; capability, having a skill or problem solving abilities are part of someone's personality, but compatibility is about how well the two you fit together, so that can't be part of just one person's personality.
That aside I totally agree, it's super important that they have their own thing, and their own drive. I find that people can become overly dependent on their partner when they don't. And yes, it's also important that our partner has something that we can admire and appreciate, like you said.
That aside I totally agree, it's super important that they have their own thing, and their own drive. I find that people can become overly dependent on their partner when they don't. And yes, it's also important that our partner has something that we can admire and appreciate, like you said.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@Nightwings i understand your point 👍
Nightwings · 31-35, F
@GuyWithOpinions Oh but you're right if we're talking skill, and not just interest, skills are not personality. 😄
Yes. Looks get boring quickly when there's no personality whatsoever.
lostlissa · 36-40, F
No
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lostlissa · 36-40, F
@Darksideinthenight2 true
Yes
Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
Yes
Smokey · 46-50, M
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
yes
Allelse · 36-40, M
No.
Ferise1 · 46-50, M
Yes, my wife she had the purest heart😢❤