How to not feel selfish for wanting love?

@SW-User It IS hard when single for so long..you start to believe it must not be for you. You will find someone I bet at the least expected time! Windup! And thanks..really..for saying those things about me. 🪻

@Coralmist I only see you as kind, I'd meet you, but very far away. Only meaning to express you have parts about you some men love. You express yourself vulnerable, and it's hard, maybe easier here? But if I can give you words, there is someone close to you who doesn't want the girls on the dating app who present themselves perfect, who may love your vulnerability. I'm almost done with the idea of dating, I gave myself to my ex who needed care, as a friend, and it's always become since, why didn't you move on?

Well that sucks, when her father had cancer after. I learned, the pool is shallow, and I'd rather find someone who understands I gave towards someone I didn't have to, who gave to her, instead of looking in jealousy. In an ethical world that held value, to me, me giving myself to my ex, as a friend then, helping her was bigger than any date.

I had one on the evening of his death, express to me get over her. And ps, it wasn't a date, it was a random encounter. People don't know the seeds they grow in their inhumane expressions.

@SW-User I am sorry of her passing..what a wonderful friend you are, I am sure she was so grateful for your aid. 🍁

@Abstraction That is an interesting stance and I think I could truly benefit from it. Because anything good or related to love feels out of reach..like I simply don't deserve it. Shame yes😔 Ty so much friend. 💜

@Coralmist I remember a drug and alcohol campaign on TV for young people that used a cool song and the slogan, 'respect yourself'. I liked it a lot because it didn't require you to love yourself, feel good inside or anything else. But it carried some attitude which is a little easier, and attitude shapes us.

@AbstractionYes it is less charged than LOVE yourself. Ty Abstraction. 🌠

@scorpio611 Thank you, Scorpio. 🌹 Your reply means a lot.

@Coralmist Neednt say thank you. Everyone needs love bae

@Abstraction Thank you💓

@WillaKissing I wish I knew why a parent..mine..yours..and anyone who thought mentally or physically hurting a kid was goid???? Or necessary at all????? Im sorry of your past that is a lot to overcome too. It stsys with you. You identify with it over time. Now I feel I don't have a right to anything human. I am trying hard daily to truly turn thise ideas around. And I know you will find love..you deserve every ounce. 🌹

@Coralmist Bless you and I pray you find what you deserve over settling as well. The Lord Knows I will not just settle.

@Banksy83 Ty for that. 🌞

@Livingwell Thank you Living🐦

@Coralmist well first off we have chatted some i think and 2 I believe ever gal deserves love and guy to. I honestly dont have to know u. To tell u that. I been looking for a gal for 20 years

@496sbc Thank you 496🐞🌻

@Coralmist ur welcome and btw u always been sweet to me. So ur one love for that

@FurryFace The problem is I don't believe I should have /deserve it.

@uncalled4 Ty so much. 🌸🥹

@Coralmist That's the way I think about you...someone is about to win the lottery!

@uncalled4 Aww I truly am grateful for your words friend. 🌻

@iamonfire696 Ty truly🪻

@Coralmist You’re welcome

@Renaci Thats true and if being HUMAN means having love ..whether a person is selfish or not, then with that reasoning it would include me. Appreciate your tip my friend 🪻

@Jexie Ty truly Exige💓

@Musicman Thank you so much. 🦋🐞

@NativePortlander1970 Ty my friend 💜

@Coralmist You're so very welcome :) 🤗