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Have you ever found true love in your life? If yes where? If not Do you think you will ever find it?

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Dlrannie · 31-35, F

Yes I did but sadly he died in an accident a couple of months before our wedding. He remains in my heart and memories 🙂

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toughbaby2 · 26-30, F

@Dlrannie im so sorry for your loss

Dlrannie · 31-35, F

@toughbaby2 Thank you

Dlrannie · 31-35, F

@Queendragonfly I still miss him greatly but life moves on and I’m fine🙂

dancingtongue · 80-89, M

Yep. Her father ran the grocery store that was literally behind our house, and she worked there on weekends. We were both freshmen in high school, but different high schools. Friends only for a decade, then realized we were soul mates. Married 43 years before I lost her to cancer. Missed her terribly this weekend when our granddaughter graduated from college. Somewhere she was smiling proudly seeing what remains of our family together for the weekend.

toughbaby2 · 26-30, F

@dancingtongue so sorry for your loss

nameless1 · 36-40

I did once but he passed away. He needed a donor for bone marrow and never received it on time.

SW-User

@nameless1 Wow that’s sad 😞. Sorry for your loss

TexChik · F

@nameless1 I’m so sorry 🙁

Soossie

Every time that I loved, yes, true love …

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Soossie

@SW-User

Thank you my kind friend… I have loved indeed… 🤗

Soossie

@MaybelChong

Aww!! Thank you … 🙏

Soossie

@SW-User

Thank you … I’m glad that you do …

HairbrushDiva · 31-35, F

Yes, my husband.

nedkelly · 61-69, M

Yes, we met on a blind date back in May 1979, and now married for 42 years 10 months

Busybee333 · 31-35, F

Yes, in my heart.
I loved someone to the core; life had other plans for me.
In time, I felt that the love in my heart is infinite, regardless.

You are searching for something that is in fact, in you.
When you realize that, it grows richer, deeper, beautiful beyond circumstances, and it blooms in you every day, whether you have met "the one" or not.

I wish everyone to experience this depth + to be very, very lucky and content :)

spice1 · M

Yes a long time ago when I was single, it lasted 7 years til I finally had to end it, I still love her and think about her constantly.

toughbaby2 · 26-30, F

@spice1 why did it end

spice1 · M

@toughbaby2 she was married, we were both very much in love with each other but she wouldn't divorce her husband, I waited as long as I could, the hardest thing was not just leaving her but also leaving her kids which had gotten very used to me.

sweetdream · 22-25, F

I still haven't met a man who I would say he's the one, my perfect match!
There is always something missing either in the head or in the underpants 😁

cd4259 · 61-69, M

Yes I did, I was at a Scout Jamboree with 15,000 odd people there. Met my future wife there, we were together for just over 30years before she passed away.

SW-User

Yes , I met him in 2004, married in 2006. We worked at the same place. ☺️

Jeephikelove · 51-55, F

Yes, I was too young to appreciate it and screwed up to believe it.

PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F

No my ego wont allow it

Loretta78 · 46-50, F

No, sadly I‘ ve never found love in my life.
And now I am out of age that this ever still could happen to me. 😞

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Loretta78 · 46-50, F

@toughbaby2 I am socially isolated already since years... since more than 20 years I even don´t have any friends, and my family is gone too. 😞
And now I am ill too... 😑

Even if it would be nice to find love I know that this is not possible for me. Not anymore. 😞
I am just realistic... 😞

Thandeka · 31-35, F

@Loretta78 I saw this lady who posted her story early this year. She was saying she's 45 has never been married, has no kids. According to her she says she's been wanting for the right one and was saying she found a man in his early 50s who loves her and that they were preparing to get married. She was saying love has no age. Her words inspired me I hope the same for you 😊.

Loretta78 · 46-50, F

@Thandeka Thanks.

Gumbodidlo · C

My wife 😁💝

looping · 18-21

i havent and doubt that i ever will. i'm just trying to learn how to accept that

toughbaby2 · 26-30, F

@looping you're still very young why do you think you won't find anyone?

looping · 18-21

@toughbaby2 i have a tendency to push people away when they're trying to help or get close. plus subconsciously i find myself viewing the people that do like me (romantically) to be disgusting. thinking "why would someone chose to like me. they have to be sick in the head or something" that's obviously my own fault but it comes from a deep rooted hatred i have for myself. that's all to say i'm not really the kind of person who tries in life. so getting to the bottom of these feelings and actually attempting to correct them is completely off the table for me. too much effort

toughbaby2 · 26-30, F

@looping This all sounds very familiar to me too. This is also reason I doubt finding anyone. I recently found out I am avoidant attachment style.. I hate being this way and I would love to become more receptive for love. I wish your heart to open and find beauty and value in yourself again❤️

caPnAhab · 26-30, M

Nope. I think I've accepted I'll live a solitary life, and that's okay with me

toughbaby2 · 26-30, F

@caPnAhab why do you feel that way do you feel you are hard to match with?

caPnAhab · 26-30, M

@toughbaby2 I never really cared or looked.
But it also seems the more close someone tries to get to me, the further I push myself away.

toughbaby2 · 26-30, F

@caPnAhab maybe you are avoidant attachment style. But if you never looked for it of cared you set yourself up for a more relaxed life I think😂

Thandeka · 31-35, F

I've never. I guess I'll only have to wait and see on the next episodes of my life 😅.

SW-User

@Thandeka That’s the spirit 👍😀

Queendragonfly · 31-35, F

Yes. At a party at some random place out in nowhere. I knew I'd find him. Just not when. I met him at age 26.

Barny52 · 56-60, M

Yes in the pub sadly had to wait 40yrs to find her

WhatLifeIsFor · 41-45, M

well i had a chance to find true love butvi missed it

lim1212 · 36-40, M

It seems that my chance of finding true love has passed, and now I seek commitment primarily for companionship. While I experienced the exhilarating feeling of butterflies in my 20s, circumstances always seemed to work against me.

Fertilization · 36-40, F

Yes I have already.

PrincessRoarBuddy · F

🤫🤷🏼‍♀️😎

GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M

I thought i did. Turned out it was fake. Il find it again when i decide to put effort in that direction. I have other priorities right now.

cycleman · 61-69, M

Chocolate!
headaches here and there, but least there has been no heartaches from it.

Thandeka · 31-35, F

@cycleman Lucky you.

SW-User

Love is a many splendour thing, so they say 😀

SW-User

I have not and doubt that I ever will.

MaybelChong · 46-50, F

@SW-User Seems too early to quit

akindheart · 61-69, F

no and no. (not to sound pessimistic)

Om2014 · 31-35, M

Wts true love? Most of the romantic relationships are infatuations.. cause u can find true love in any other relationship as well, chances are higher infact

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Om2014 · 31-35, M

@Thandeka certainly! that's why people can't stand each other in most of the relationships now after few months or a year

Thandeka · 31-35, F

@Om2014 Relationships are scary. Someone goes in because of one thing they like about someone and when that thing loses its appeal what do you have left.

Om2014 · 31-35, M

@Thandeka yea it's more about what they can get than about sharing what they have. It goes both ways

Ashypop · 18-21, F

i did but i was stupid and i let himgo without thinking about his feelings, i said really harsh things to him and i didn't even mean it , thinking back , i really wished that i could travel back in time so i would never do that to him. he has moved on and i'm happy for him but i still can't get over him.

Feuerstern · 51-55, M

no, and no.

smiler2012 · 61-69

{@toughbaby2] 😞i thought i had but when i got round to asking for a date she had a boyfriend this broke my heart she will alway have a special place with me

MaybelChong · 46-50, F

@smiler2012 It genuinely as I can tell you still wish the best for her.

Bexsy

Yes, true love as in I truly loved him with everything I had. He crushed my young heart. Years later I found that true love again. He loved me as much as Ioved him. He waa taken from me in a truck crash.