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What is your biggest turnoff in a potential partner?

Mine are toxic masculinity/ close mindedness, extremely political people and poor hygiene
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Fungus feet, too serious, controlling, critical, and aspires to be a hillbilly viking.
MilitantIrishShepherd · 26-30, M
[@849619,SkeetSkeet] I'm sorry 😔 I didn't mean it 🥺🥺
mrlopez · 26-30, M
[@849619,SkeetSkeet] that beard should have so much food crumbs in it
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
[@1161949,mrlopez] he oils it with clam juice
ZashaKitty · 22-25, F
I realize I never answered the question before and just asked a question instead..

My answer is overly controlling. I was in a relationship with a guy before and he was very controlling and would not let me spend my own money or go out with friends and if out with him it was better to basically look at the ground so he would never think i was looking at anyone else.

So yeah controlling people are the biggest turn off that i can think of. Never again could i be with anyone like that
ZashaKitty · 22-25, F
[@16806,cherokeepatti] sorry to hear that and yeah I dont want to be involved in that type again
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
[@1060641,ZashaKitty] so greedy he ended up murdering my mother because he could get a widower’s pension from her death. It was almost as much as her VA disability check.
ZashaKitty · 22-25, F
[@16806,cherokeepatti] I am so sorry
As long as they understand that pizza is no place for pineapple. 😌

Oh and if they are willing to be my alter sacrifice that’s a plus. 😃
Valerian · 61-69, M
[@605647,DarkHeaven]

They're evidently all young Brainless Testosterone Charged Walking Boners![big] ... 🕺🏼
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Those are the guys that will try hitting on an obvious Penthouse Playmate Photo from 1987,
"What beach is that babe?" "I'll meet you there on Saturday!"
[@460373,Valerian] Makes me sad, though. I mean if they could just respect my orientation… I’m a pretty good friend.
Valerian · 61-69, M
[@605647,DarkHeaven] I agree, but they're probably the barely tolerable friend of their group.
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
Men with manbuns and purses
I want to be girl in relationship and it disturbs me when they look better in my clothes than I do🤪
[@1219236,Justmeraeagain] And I don’t think tats are manly. I hope not, anyways.
Justmeraeagain · 51-55, F
[@605647,DarkHeaven] Never bothers me in non romantic relationships, I don't want to judge people like that.
I am just old and set in my ways.
[@1219236,Justmeraeagain] I think you’re just fine. What attracts… or doesn’t, just is. No big deal. Be safe and be well. 🌸
BluntSm0ker · 26-30, M
mrlopez · 26-30, M
Entitlement, no sense of humor and if she treats people bad like those in the service industry
Narcissist seeing what is good for only themselves selfish
Lilymoon · F
no sense of humor and bad breath
chasingWednesday · 36-40, M
[@1141547,Lilymoon] those are good ones lol
Lilymoon · F
[@1224222,chasingWednesday] right? 🤭
Ksmile14 · F
Mean
Rude
Narcissistic 😡
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Effeminate, passive dispositions do nothing for me. There are actually a ton of things I’m not into, but the post only asked for one ha ha I’m unapologetically picky AF 😅🤷🏻‍♀️
BreezeyBree · 56-60, F
Looking at lists of turnoffs and ideal partners.... big turnoff for me.
chasingWednesday · 36-40, M
Negative, disrespectful, dishonest, selfish
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
If they are out of shape.
If they have bad teeth.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
[@843186,NunIover] add short to that and you have Danny Devito.
[@16806,cherokeepatti] but I enjoy midgets 😝
*Lack of character/integrity/
moral compass/ethics
*Cheapness
*Excessively emotional, unbalanced personality
*Misogynistic /sexist/racist/homophobic
*Codependent rather than interdependent
*Stubbornness
Machismo, misogyny, bad smell caused by self-neglect, disregard, hatefulness and obsessive resentment towards people
SpaceJesus · 41-45, M
Nah, no partner for me. Partners equal drama, and I'm not about dat. I like the peace and quiet
Valerian · 61-69, M
[@717388,SpaceJesus] well that fits your name!
LittleBat · F
[c=359E00]An effeminate simpy man, someone who’s boring, has ugly feet, and doesn’t put me first[/c]
Casualsharter · 36-40, F
Stubborn selfish presumptuous whining lazy ignorance
SW User
With exception of the masculinity part, the same
Add in arrogance
Lostpoet · 31-35, M
Damn😔im the unwashed phenomenon~Joan Baez
Wandering eyes lies too much porn
LittleBat · F
[c=359E00]this too[/c][@1068822,Drumroll]
BlueVeins · 22-25
controlling, moralistic, and inauthentic
Dainbramadge · 51-55, M
Smoking or doing drugs
Doesn't like kids.
StevenIzzi · 51-55, M
To [@364304,Peaches] point. Jealousy

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Peaches · F
[@393772,StevenIzzi] That's the way my boyfriend and I are, 😌 we both openly admire and compliment the opposite sex all the time. I've been in relationships where the other one was so jealous that I had to run!🏃‍♀️😯Thanks for sharing this. Hey...you're kind of [i][b]cute!😉[/b][/i]
Asmae · 31-35, F
Rude jackasses and bad listeners.
Valerian · 61-69, M
Greed in Any Form,
Doesn't "Dislike" always "HATES" Things,
Believes Assorted Idiotic Things as Truth,
Wins Arguments by Being Louder,
Lying by Never Exactly Mentioning It!

Oh! AND
Wakes up earlier than you by 1 or 2 Hours and NEVER understands: "Quiet" & "Sleep" and "Noise" & "Awake"
Willful and aggressive ignorance.
ZashaKitty · 22-25, F
what is toxic masculinity?
ZashaKitty · 22-25, F
[@1247666,Casualsharter] I don't judge people. I just dont think toxic masculinity exists and think it is just something people say to demean men now. I do think toxic people exist though but I dont think gender plays a part in that
[@1060641,ZashaKitty] I wasn’t saying that I agree. I was just explaining what it is. Masculinity isn’t toxic in and of itself but toxic masculinity is masculinity that has become toxic because it is so overboard. It’s a guy just trying to push his weight around because he’s a guy. Femininity can be toxic too, when the woman does the same thing with what is typically considered feminine traits.
[@1060641,ZashaKitty] I would agree with you that toxic people are more so the issue, and if we use those terms it could be a way of pushing gender bias. I’ll have to think on that some.
Casualsharter · 36-40, F
The fact that it’s a potential partner— that right there - Enough said!
GerOttman · 61-69, M
If she has a dick, that's pretty much a deal breaker!
Valerian · 61-69, M
[@755518,GerOttman] 👆🏻 Same!
Especially if it's her Ex's ina Jar!
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Arrogance, temper and controlling are but 3, poor hygiene is also a huge red light. Phew
MilitantIrishShepherd · 26-30, M
Hypocrisy or a lack of a sense of humour
MilitantIrishShepherd · 26-30, M
[@1224900,Notsimilar] now you're getting it 😘
WillaKissing · 56-60, T
Whoop there it is! You nailed it already for me too Luv!
8Rockhead8 · 51-55, M
Bad breath!! Leaned in for the kiss and almost fainted...seriously.
Doesn’t believe Die Hard is the ultimate family Christmas movie.
Barny52 · 56-60, M
one that talks that much it makes my ears bleed !
MiserableAtBest · 18-21, F
Willful ignorance and bigotry
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Define Toxic Masculinity
Not paying attention to detail
FoolishLuna · 51-55, F
Passive aggressive
zerofuks2give · 36-40, M
A penis 🤷🏻‍♂️
[@359439,zerofuks2give] dude. same. 😐
Lostpoet · 31-35, M
Loose morals

 
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