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What is your biggest turnoff in a potential partner?

Mine are toxic masculinity/ close mindedness, extremely political people and poor hygiene
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
Fungus feet, too serious, controlling, critical, and aspires to be a hillbilly viking.
SkeetSkeet · 100+, F
@empanadas he oils it with clam juice
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@SkeetSkeet Hillbilly Viking’s are just wrong in every way 😆
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@SkeetSkeet That just made me puke 🤮😆
ZashaKitty · 26-30, F
I realize I never answered the question before and just asked a question instead..

My answer is overly controlling. I was in a relationship with a guy before and he was very controlling and would not let me spend my own money or go out with friends and if out with him it was better to basically look at the ground so he would never think i was looking at anyone else.

So yeah controlling people are the biggest turn off that i can think of. Never again could i be with anyone like that
ZashaKitty · 26-30, F
@cherokeepatti I am so sorry
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@ZashaKitty A person that loves you will never try to control you 🌹
ZashaKitty · 26-30, F
@LondonCowboy I would like to hope so :)
As long as they understand that pizza is no place for pineapple. 😌

Oh and if they are willing to be my alter sacrifice that’s a plus. 😃
@Poetvann porn has made them think that becomes a threesome, and the whole time… all I want is this. js

Poetvann · 22-25, F
@DarkHeaven I agree, and men are pigs but you can also thank straight girls that act gay for male attention 🙄 especially when they drink, I've encountered one too many of those 😭
@Poetvann yeah. our actual community is pretty small. There may be a large percentage of women that feel some attraction to varying degrees towards women, but as far as women whom actually identify and would even actually act on it… it’s about 3-4% at most. Alcohol and us don’t work well, unless you are truly looking for a one night stand with a mostly straight girl.
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LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@BluntSm0ker Damn !!! 😞😆
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
Men with manbuns and purses
I want to be girl in relationship and it disturbs me when they look better in my clothes than I do🤪
@Justmeraeagain And I don’t think tats are manly. I hope not, anyways.
Justmeraeagain · 56-60, F
@DarkHeaven Never bothers me in non romantic relationships, I don't want to judge people like that.
I am just old and set in my ways.
@Justmeraeagain I think you’re just fine. What attracts… or doesn’t, just is. No big deal. Be safe and be well. 🌸
BlueVeins · 22-25
controlling, moralistic, and inauthentic
Lilymoon · F
no sense of humor and bad breath
SW-User
@Lilymoon those are good ones lol
Lilymoon · F
@SW-User right? 🤭
Ksmile14 · F
Mean
Rude
Narcissistic 😡
BananaBrown · 41-45, F
Lack of empathy
Peaches · F
Jealousy.👎
SW-User
Looking at lists of turnoffs and ideal partners.... big turnoff for me.
Narcissist seeing what is good for only themselves selfish
FreeSpirit1 · 51-55, F
If they are out of shape.
If they have bad teeth.
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
@Nunlover add short to that and you have Danny Devito.
@cherokeepatti but I enjoy midgets 😝
*Lack of character/integrity/
moral compass/ethics
*Cheapness
*Excessively emotional, unbalanced personality
*Misogynistic /sexist/racist/homophobic
*Codependent rather than interdependent
*Stubbornness
WhateverWorks · 36-40
Effeminate, passive dispositions do nothing for me. There are actually a ton of things I’m not into, but the post only asked for one ha ha I’m unapologetically picky AF 😅🤷🏻‍♀️
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Casualsharter · 36-40, F
Stubborn selfish presumptuous whining lazy ignorance
SW-User
Negative, disrespectful, dishonest, selfish
Willful and aggressive ignorance.
MiserableAtBest · 18-21, F
Willful ignorance and bigotry
SW-User
Rude jackasses and bad listeners.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
Machismo, misogyny, bad smell caused by self-neglect, disregard, hatefulness and obsessive resentment towards people
AmericanBroad · 31-35, FVIP
Poor hygiene and constant disrespect.

Unfortunately I’m one of those extremely political people 😭😭
Casualsharter · 36-40, F
The fact that it’s a potential partner— that right there - Enough said!
cherokeepatti · 61-69, F
Arrogance, temper and controlling are but 3, poor hygiene is also a huge red light. Phew
SW-User
With exception of the masculinity part, the same
Add in arrogance
WillaKissing · 56-60
Whoop there it is! You nailed it already for me too Luv!
Lostpoet · M
Damn😔im the unwashed phenomenon~Joan Baez
Adstar · 56-60, M
For me it is a person who decides to use "silent treatment" as their first policy when trouble happens in the relationship..

Trouble will always happen in relationships between people because people are not perfect.. If a person jumps to use the tactic of silent treatment ensure that their relationship will eventually fail..
Wandering eyes lies too much porn
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Dainbramadge · 56-60, M
Smoking or doing drugs
Doesn't like kids.
StevenIzzi · 51-55, M
To @Peaches point. Jealousy

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Peaches · F
@StevenIzzi That's the way my boyfriend and I are, 😌 we both openly admire and compliment the opposite sex all the time. I've been in relationships where the other one was so jealous that I had to run!🏃‍♀️😯Thanks for sharing this. Hey...you're kind of [i][b]cute!😉[/b][/i]
Valerian · 100+, M
Greed in Any Form,
Doesn't "Dislike" always "HATES" Things,
Believes Assorted Idiotic Things as Truth,
Wins Arguments by Being Louder,
Lying by Never Exactly Mentioning It!

Oh! AND
Wakes up earlier than you by 1 or 2 Hours and NEVER understands: "Quiet" & "Sleep" and "Noise" & "Awake"
FoolishLuna · 56-60, F
Passive aggressive
Flossie · 36-40, F
Bad hygiene
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@Flossie Good hygiene is a must for physical closeness 🌹
ZashaKitty · 26-30, F
what is toxic masculinity?
ZashaKitty · 26-30, F
@Casualsharter I don't judge people. I just dont think toxic masculinity exists and think it is just something people say to demean men now. I do think toxic people exist though but I dont think gender plays a part in that
@ZashaKitty I wasn’t saying that I agree. I was just explaining what it is. Masculinity isn’t toxic in and of itself but toxic masculinity is masculinity that has become toxic because it is so overboard. It’s a guy just trying to push his weight around because he’s a guy. Femininity can be toxic too, when the woman does the same thing with what is typically considered feminine traits.
@ZashaKitty I would agree with you that toxic people are more so the issue, and if we use those terms it could be a way of pushing gender bias. I’ll have to think on that some.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
Mine is narcissism , lack of care and bad hygiene but if I like a smelly girl I will take her to the shower and wash her 🧼😎
GerOttman · 61-69, M
If she has a dick, that's pretty much a deal breaker!
Valerian · 100+, M
@GerOttman 👆🏻 Same!
Especially if it's her Ex's ina Jar!
8Rockhead8 · 51-55, M
Bad breath!! Leaned in for the kiss and almost fainted...seriously.
Doesn’t believe Die Hard is the ultimate family Christmas movie.
Barny52 · 56-60, M
one that talks that much it makes my ears bleed !
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HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
Define Toxic Masculinity
Entwistle · 56-60, M
A right wing political outlook.
Thodsis · 51-55, M
A tendency to prejudge.
zerofuks2give · 41-45, M
A penis 🤷🏻‍♂️
@zerofuks2give dude. same. 😐
StevetheSleeve · 31-35, M
Bad teeth.
SW-User
Lostpoet · M
Loose morals

 
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