What is your biggest turnoff in a potential partner?

Mine are toxic masculinity/ close mindedness, extremely political people and poor hygiene

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ZashaKitty · 26-30, F

I realize I never answered the question before and just asked a question instead..

My answer is overly controlling. I was in a relationship with a guy before and he was very controlling and would not let me spend my own money or go out with friends and if out with him it was better to basically look at the ground so he would never think i was looking at anyone else.

So yeah controlling people are the biggest turn off that i can think of. Never again could i be with anyone like that

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@ZashaKitty wow

ZashaKitty · 26-30, F

@cherokeepatti yep

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@ZashaKitty was he thinking “Maybe some day I can tap into her savings” ?

ZashaKitty · 26-30, F

@cherokeepatti no it was more of him thinking i couldnt handle having my own money and treating me like a child. He would of course spend my money on himself though and the few odd things i needed

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@ZashaKitty Yeah sounds like my father, he had money but he liked to drink and other things with his and would tell my mother to pay the bills etc. You don’t want to be involved with that type.

ZashaKitty · 26-30, F

@cherokeepatti sorry to hear that and yeah I dont want to be involved in that type again

cherokeepatti · 61-69, F

@ZashaKitty so greedy he ended up murdering my mother because he could get a widower’s pension from her death. It was almost as much as her VA disability check.

ZashaKitty · 26-30, F

@cherokeepatti I am so sorry

LondonCowboy · 51-55, M

@ZashaKitty A person that loves you will never try to control you 🌹

ZashaKitty · 26-30, F

@LondonCowboy I would like to hope so :)