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What's the difference between transgender people and tomgirl/boys?

[center][b]I don't see a difference... no offense.
I just learned what's a transgender today.[/b][/center]
CaptainCanadia41-45, M
Tomboy is just a description for a girl who is into things people associate with boys. My mom was a tomboy because she liked to play with trucks as a kid. My mom is very much a woman.

Transgender is someone who not just feels, but knows deep down that they are the other gender. So it'd be like if you just KNEW you were a guy, and hated your body and wanted a different one because having a woman's body is wrong and gross. And the only way to be happy is to live as, and for some people change their bodies so that their minds and bodies match.

So very different thing. One is about how you act, the other is about who you are deep down inside.
Thatguysteve31-35, M
I am going out on a limb to say that tom girls usually don't want to actually change gender.
kimtin3326-30, F
Transgender desires to be the other gender, tomboy is a girl who likes welding or a tomgirl is boy who likes baking.
For example, I am a tomboy, but I don't want to be a guy.
kimtin3326-30, F
@CandyApple: Those are sterotypical classifications. I got told I wasn't a girl, because I liked to weld. It's what boys and girls were taught they were supposed to do/like to be a boy or girl.
(On that note, I'm not saying it's bad for either gender to like any things, just that it's the sterotypical definition that our culture has been based off of for so long.)
PoizonApple41-45, F
@kimtin33: we have to stomp them out, though! I keep this on my phone :

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kimtin3326-30, F
馃槃 Yes! In my intro psyc class, we took a math test and were asked our gender either before or after. They found that when people were asked their gender first, males did better. When they were asked after, males and females did the same. The power of suggestion.
PoizonApple41-45, F
Tomboys do not identify as male
KandiGhostcat22-25, F
Crossdressers wear the clothes of the opposite gender/sex. Transgender is when a person doesn't feel like their gender-identity matches up with their self-identity (to keep it simple). Crossdressing has to do with clothes and transgender has to do with gender identity.
Transgender people are (basically) people who feel like they have been born in the wrong body. For example someone who identifies as (feels like they are) a female but has a male body could be considered transgender.
Tomgirls and feminine boys generally don't feel like they should have been born with the opposite sex's physical characteristics and/or sex organs. They just express themselves in ways that are traditionally considered feminine (for boys) or masculine (for girls). They don't flat out identify with the sex their expression of themselves "matches".
It's obviously really complicated and difficult to explain. But in short, they are not the same thing.
Maybe look up some lgbt blogs. It might be more helpful than SW.
NationalSocialist18-21, M
Please don't get yourself brainwashed by the on going propaganda from Hollywood and media.
There is just Male and female, there's not a single evidence on earth which can prove homosexuality.
It's being protected by the laws because they can't debate with us.
I agree with @Feature it's gender dysphoria mostly.
NationalSocialist18-21, M
That's a mutation my dear.
I am medical student and when we study about non disjunction of xx chromosomes, or klinefelter's disorder or similar conditions we don't have to classify them as a different gender, lgbt is a different thing.
You could have given me harder objections like xq28 marker, LeVay's studies.
kimtin3326-30, F
What do you think about the bed nucleus of the stria terminalis? The size is dependent on sex, the male's is larger than the female's. Transgender females have the size a female would have as opposed to a male.
NationalSocialist18-21, M
Do you know about the studies of *hulshoff pol in 2006 it was the effect of hormone therapy on brain volumes in the male to female transsexuals.
Your concern about the BSTc should be blamed on the Netherlands institute which provided fuel to the 'Brain-Sex' theory.
I suggest you actually go through the report and you'll find out that the transsexuals had already been through the therapy some until their death They did examine one woman, in whom a virilizing adrenal tumor had produced elevated testosterone levels and one man, in whom a feminizing adrenal tumor had produced elevated estradiol levels. Neither individual had BSTc volumes or neuron numbers that were atypical for their sex, but it is probable that their cross-sex hormone levels, although elevated, had not been high enough and had not lasted long enough.
Brain sex theory is pretty much loosing I have suggested you before to go with genetics, you might catch me somewhere on the chromosome 馃檭
SW-User
Body dysphoria. Taste doesn't determine gender.
Or, just look at their brains.
dodgergurl1231-35, F
Tomboys/girls may not want to change their body or identify as the opposite gender
Longlegs201461-69, M
Transgender identify/want to be the opposite sex. Some go as far as surgery to alter them selves to more closely align with the opposite sex -- i.e. a male having penis removed and replaced with a vagina.

Tom_____ just dress or want to do something traditionally thought of as an activity associated with the opposite sex. But they don't think of themselves as being the opposite sex.
KawaiiF
wait. what?? transgender girls somehow grows a penis and the boys somehow gets a vagina and boobs????
PoizonApple41-45, F
It's the notion that your gender runs deeper than what parts you have physically
SW-User
A transgender person may become transsexual, meaning that they get operations and hormones to help them become the gender they identify with.
There are operations to get breast implants and genital changes. A vagina can be created while I think penises are currently prosthetics, not lab-grown or something.

Also, I think you may be confused on what transgender means. For example, a transman has a masculinized brain (in shape and function). A transwoman has a feminized brain. The cause of transgenderism is unknown but has evidence of starting in the womb. The metaphor is actually pretty succinct: trapped in the wrong body.

There have also been many studies you can look into, such as psychological ones, including the unethical case by Dr. Money, and neurological studies- examinations of brains through scans, as well as autopsies.
blindbob41-45
they have a strong feeling that they are the opposite gender so they don't like their bodies.
MikefromEP51-55, M
Operations
PoizonApple41-45, F
Not necessarily
MikefromEP51-55, M
@CandyApple: My correction. A transgender is waiting for an operation
PoizonApple41-45, F
Actually, also not necessarily. They identify as the opposite gender from which they were born. They may choose to express that identity surgically but many do not.

 
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