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Questioning my sexuality again

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SanAntonioWest · 18-21, M
I can relate. :( I'm never sure if I should call myself "bisexual" if I'm mostly attracted to one gender, and there are people who act as if being bisexual is not a thing, so I often don't bother. On the other hand, maybe it's not so important to have one label for it, as long as I'm with someone I'm attracted to.
Ananke · 26-30, F
I don't stress that much over my sexuality. It is what it is. I don't much care for labels. I'm attracted to what I am. Generally if people ask me I just say I'm straight to avoid any potential drama. In reality it's a lot more complex than that.

Sexuality is a spectrum. A rainbow. And that's ok. You don't have to have it nailed down as being one thing or another.
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AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F
I don't understand why its a question. If you're of legal age. You test the waters and you find out. There's no other way around it. You have to experience things in order to know if you like it or not. All you have to do is act on it, if its not for you, then you'll know! To me it's that simple.
@AngelUnforgiven Not everyone accepts themselves being possibly gay, lesbian, bi, trans, or queer.
DragonFruit · 70-79, M
My sexuality has been a journey over the years.
In my early life, I considered myself straight...but then a male friend got naked and kissed me and I was so aroused 1st we ended up having sex.
For the next few years, all my sexual activity was with men, and I identified as gay.
Then I met a woman who I fell in love with, and started to think of myself as bisexual.
After my marriage became sexless, I started thinking about having sex with men again, eventually coming to the point of realizing that I wasn't sexually attracted to women (though I can appreciate the beauty of a female body, I don't really want to have sex with a woman).
I now identify as gay, even though I'm married to a woman. She's my wife and my closest friend, but I'm not going to be having sex with her (she's got no sex drive, and I'm not sexually attracted to her). I might never have sex again, but if I do, it will be with another man
3Dogmatic · 46-50, M
Don’t question love. If it is real love, and you are giving and receiving equally, let it roll.
zonavar68 · 56-60, M
I think it's normal to question one's sexuality and preferences. What's not normal is questioning one's gender defined in DNA.
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JRVanguard · 26-30, M
GabbySA8 · F
@HijabaDabbaDoo I don’t wanna be attracted to men though😭
@GabbySA8 you can't help who you're attracted to but you can help who you entertain.
Bang5luts · M
@GabbySA8 I don't either
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
@JimboSaturn this generation loves to put labels on everything
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@JimboSaturn And THANKS; my friend!
Tumbleweed · F
Just be yourself, you shouldn't have to have a label, just do YOU
Bang5luts · M
@Tumbleweed

just do YOU
I believe that implies that she is "Autosexual"
Ducky · 31-35, F
It’s a complex thing. It always is. Some don’t figure until well into their middle ages.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Turn off social media and talk to your dad.
GabbySA8 · F
@GuyWithOpinions he’s dead😟
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
@GabbySA8 do you want children some day
friendlykinkster · 56-60, M
Why? This is 2025. Be true to whoever and whatever you want to be. Sexuality is not a fixed constant.
Bang5luts · M
Just put of curiosity can I ask why you are questioning your sexuality?
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
Im questioning my lack of sex
pdockal · 56-60, M
What's the question ?????
Ramon67 · 61-69, M
What are you questioning ?
What’s the question?
BigImo · 26-30, F
I'll answer it for you. You're bi
Fukfacewillie · 56-60, M
Does it answer?

 
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