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DragonFruit · 70-79, M
My sexuality has been a journey over the years.
In my early life, I considered myself straight...but then a male friend got naked and kissed me and I was so aroused 1st we ended up having sex.
For the next few years, all my sexual activity was with men, and I identified as gay.
Then I met a woman who I fell in love with, and started to think of myself as bisexual.
After my marriage became sexless, I started thinking about having sex with men again, eventually coming to the point of realizing that I wasn't sexually attracted to women (though I can appreciate the beauty of a female body, I don't really want to have sex with a woman).
I now identify as gay, even though I'm married to a woman. She's my wife and my closest friend, but I'm not going to be having sex with her (she's got no sex drive, and I'm not sexually attracted to her). I might never have sex again, but if I do, it will be with another man
In my early life, I considered myself straight...but then a male friend got naked and kissed me and I was so aroused 1st we ended up having sex.
For the next few years, all my sexual activity was with men, and I identified as gay.
Then I met a woman who I fell in love with, and started to think of myself as bisexual.
After my marriage became sexless, I started thinking about having sex with men again, eventually coming to the point of realizing that I wasn't sexually attracted to women (though I can appreciate the beauty of a female body, I don't really want to have sex with a woman).
I now identify as gay, even though I'm married to a woman. She's my wife and my closest friend, but I'm not going to be having sex with her (she's got no sex drive, and I'm not sexually attracted to her). I might never have sex again, but if I do, it will be with another man