What makes a person obsess with what another person does with themselves?

@AlchemyFox Thanks. I am not claiming to be right with this, but like say I see someone dressed a little funny to me like a guy with his pants sagging down past his bottom and his skivvies are showing and he waddles because his pants are sagging yet never pulls them up. And its obvious he wears his pants this odd way to me. I make an observation, might laugh in my head about it, but get on with what it was I originally set out to do. And if dude stops to ask me a question, I do not go into asking hey, how come you like to have your pants falling down like that? A pretend he is just another guy asking a question. I answer if can, he goes his way and I go mine. That is what I would generally do.

But then there are those I have witnessed, that usually in a group for if alone would not have the nerve, they yell out some insult to the guy with saggy pants. They laugh at him aloud. Might even throw a bottle at him.

Yeah it might be irritating wondering why that guy wears his pants sagging and his butt sticking out, and obviously is having difficulties walking with his pants hobbling him like that but he obviously likes it that way. Its just clothes. Its none of my business WHY; it might be a curiosity. But I am curious about many things, whether its about people or bugs, plants or rocks. I check it out, look it over, then move on. Not everything do I like. If I dont like it I leave it. If I like it I check it out more. So I guess what I am asking in my question is why does some folks get stuck on something like these things and let it bother them to no end; get them furious even? It has nothing to do with them from outside; they are tormenting themselves inside by what something does around them.

Now if the saggy pants guy gets to stalking me or getting aggressive, yeah then I take extreme notice and might have to get defensive. But its not about his pants. Its his actions directed at me specifically.

So like back to my being Transgender, if I am simply going from point A to point B and have nothing to do with some guy seeing Transgenderism as a Mystery, what would make him get to follow me and persist at hating me when he has other places to go to, yet ignores his other needs to persist in following me to torment himself even more? I do not get it. It baffles me.

@beermeplease well i got a whole group of them after me haha😀

@DarkHeaven Oh, you can't fool me. I already know all about the homosexual agenda.

@LordShadowfire did I leave my day planner out again?

@MarkPaul Wow Sir, that is quite a mouthful and a whole lot of response to my little question which was,
" I am just curious what gets another person to obsess over another person when it is a negative obsession. "?
And I apologize for not attending to everyone's responses. My question had nothing to do with any Transgender issues. I only used my being Transgender as an example. Thats okay of course, so the point of Transgender grabbed you.

I do not resent the rest of the world. I am curious what would make you think that strong enough to say that and elaborate a lot on that. And as far as me presenting to be a woman, my little B Cup breasts are hardly noticeable. With a shirt off naked some might just take them for old man moobs. Yeah I love makeup and clothes that mostly actual Women sport commonly and not a whole lot of men do, but clothes and makeup hardly make a Man a Man or a Woman a Woman. A chicken can figure that out. I only use the word Transgender because its a definition clinicians use for some reason? I do not think the whole healthcare industry has put a lot of thought into what the word actually means. Like how do you differentiate a Cross Dresser from a Transgender person? A shit load of Cross Dressers are not sure themselves if they are Transgender or some other part of the Alphabet Soup Gang LBGQT-A-Z-1-10+ and still going infinite ( it ends with everyone livings first Initials of their middle names ).

But anyway back to me and your comments. What would make you assume so much? You mentioned that Transgender-ism is Mysterious. Okay, I can understand another person not understanding something so complex. But everybody is very complex if you get under the hood of each individual. Nobody ever has yet come to fully understand their own selves. The Hindus of India are on record the most serious researchers of themselves since the earliest history known; and only a couple two or three in thousands of years are reported to have SUPPOSEDLY discovered their true selves, and these are now Worshiped as God's by Millions upon Millions solely because they supposedly figured out the secret to whom they really are. So yeah, I can see some mystery in a Transgender too. Maybe even a little more because I am one. I would faint trying to get along in one of them Self Realization clinics Yogi places. Yikes! So I am all in with you on how people are a Mystery. That is beautiful.

Now to ASSIGNED GENDER. Yeah, this I gotta hear. This Assignment. What makes me have to obey this assignment? To Whom has this authority? This I would demand to know. Does he/she have an address? Any Contact information is requested. What could possibly have this power and authority to ASSIGN this " Gender "? And what is a Gender anyway? That is a loaded question too. I have done some so called Gender study and to this very second nobody is sure what Gender is. Millions of Dollars in Grants are awarded to researchers each year by Governments around the globe searching feverishly for the answer to what is a Gender. If you have the answer Sir, you are a rich man! I need $20k by the way, could I borrow it? Think of it as a business investment; it actually would be ;-)

So I am curious as to how you came to assume so much? I would like to know who does this Assignment thing? The Mystery part is self explanatory and I think its cool you are looking into the Mysteries. Its good to exercise the mind, the occult and esoteric. I could never stand doing puzzles, but they are healthy too. Anything to get them brains juices flowing and the sparks sparking is good for the head. I am/was an associate of the United Lodge of Theosophists. Dont judge them due to me. I only mention them because they are hard core into researching the Mysteries from a so called Spiritual perspective. Like exploring religions and their practices and trying to figure out what that spiritual stuff actually is, and go on from there. Pretty cool and endless. Like Self Realization being an endless search so is the Spiritual. One day someone will know the answer to each question of Spiritual and Self. Then again, maybe its you! Maybe its you that knows what is the ultimate Spirit! Then Sir, you would be THEE GOD! Please dont hurt me; I am only human.

Please let me know. I am sincerely curious as to what I ask here. Thank you. Mahalo Nui Loa Ho'Opononopono Aloha Sir. ( heart emoji goes here )

@WrngWlf this.

@WrngWlf I think you're right. And it's not just on this particular issue. Fear is a remarkably powerful tool that works on certain types of people. It's why it's sold the way it is. It's also a very easy transition from fear to hate. It's how they protect themselves. And how they're controlled. It's weak and pitiful.

@LordShadowfire I think you are on to something. Thanks. Makes good sense. To me anyway. And thanks too for the empathy. Yeah its not easy being me. But I think everyone has it tough anymore. Being yourself, whatever that really is, is hard to do in this world because so many factors preventing it. What is the weirdest thing is all the factors so far have not been proven to be real. I mean there is nothing tangible, solid that can be held in the hand and looked at and analyzed. Its all make believe. Except for the knives and rocks, spit, bullets and bombs, poison gasses, hand cuffs and prisons and stuff like that. All that is pretty dang real. And lethal. Hardly any of it comes to any good either. War... Love on the other hand. A whole another enchilada of what is Love? But the simplified Love, even that can go a long ways to good things. Not to be confused with sex love. That can get a pimple or worse if you delve into the down sides of it. Thanks again. Cheers & Happy New Year!

@DarkHeaven The crappy internet here will hardly get the video to spin. I got a little of it. I heard the song part. Yeah, its pretty spot on aint it. Im going to see if my Spotify can get that song. I do Music. I might be able to get hold of the Artist and get some input there. Thank you.

@WildeGeist light and love. be well. 🦋