Mordechai · 31-35, M
A lot but recently I've been looking at how we're programmed to seek validation externally in a world where that validation found in "being successful is increasingly harder and unrealistic by social media standards.
There's a really good book called the courage to be disliked which delves into it and I've been feeling a bit more connected to my older self since reading it. Id recommend it if you're interested.
There's a really good book called the courage to be disliked which delves into it and I've been feeling a bit more connected to my older self since reading it. Id recommend it if you're interested.
I don't think I question mine. I value those in my life, and I value myself. I do question at times if those around me feel same
morrgin · F
Pretty frequently, but not nearly as much as i used to. Couple of years ago i got brought down to my lowest and had no idea who I was anymore. There was no where to go but up. I had to start rebuilding and part of that meant sorting out how others had treated me. I had beliefs about myself that had been built by others who controlled me. Some of those beliefs were very deep and made over a long time so it was hard to get rid of them. My self worth is much better than it was, but Im more confident now and wasnt able to do it alone.
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
All the time, I don't think I deserve most of the things I have in my life and all I do is struggle and cause people more stress and pain. I try my best for everyone and it's never enough. I wish I was better for the one's I care about but I'm not
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
@Cigarguy From what you have posted they love you very much and you aren't a burden to the people who love you, you are a blessing.
Cigarguy · 41-45, M
@SlippingAway that is very kind of you to say. I know I should feel this way but I struggle with it. I'm alot and I just know one day it's going to be to much for the people that care about me. I wish I could just be normal for them
BrandNewMan · M
I don't think I do that ..
but .. Im feeling stuck .. mired in issues driven by others .. to the point my life feels like its lived more for them than myself
but .. Im feeling stuck .. mired in issues driven by others .. to the point my life feels like its lived more for them than myself
robbie2499 · 61-69, F
Those types of thoughts would drive me crazy. I am a worthy person but if others can't see that, it's not my fault.
Ducky · 31-35, F
Every single day. Though, it’s not so much questioning as it is reminding myself where it stands.
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
daily
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
@SlippingAway me too.😢
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
@HowtoDestroyAngels You are worthy!
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
@SlippingAway so are you.
Younameit · F
Every day
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
I admit, for the last few years, I do that more than I should. 🤷🏼♀
ScreamingFox · 41-45, F
It pops up, but I can't doubt myself too much as a parent
Too often, but every time I question it, I learn a little more about why I should stop.
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
@mindstruggle I need to try and learn more about why I should stop also.
@HowtoDestroyAngels
I guess we should start questioning less harshly.
I guess we should start questioning less harshly.
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
@mindstruggle Yes indeed.
PerfectionOfTheHeart · 46-50, F
So often that I instantly thought “Youch” as I was trying to form an answer.
SpectralMourning · 41-45, M
Continuously. I don’t think I’ll ever believe I’m good enough.
calicuz · 56-60, M
Right now, daily at work.
Allelse · 36-40, M
I don't question it, I know I'm worth nothing.
SlippingAway · 46-50, F
@Allelse No you are not!
Fishy · 36-40, F
Since I was about 9, I think 🤔
All the time. It is crippling at times
Adogslife · 61-69, M
Never.
Without me, I’d be nothing.
Without me, I’d be nothing.
thepeculiarpanda · 36-40, M
Daily.
Not so much these days tbh. You ok?
HowtoDestroyAngels · 46-50, M
@V00doo yeah, I will be.
TurtlePink · 22-25, F
Not daily but maybe once a week, maybe once every 2 weeks. Idk
empanadas · 31-35, M
Sometimes i under value myself and not know my worth.
royalblue1193 · 31-35, M

TheOneyouwerewarnedabout · 46-50, MVIP