For women which one is more pleasing?

I would rather have quality time with him. That's a better gift.

that would be pretty annoying to me. like if u give me a gift, i have to give u another one back, then i feel like it's almost a stupid way to spend money, yk u can show ur affect with words or acts but not with presents. if one person just expects presents, then that person isn't ready for a relationship for me or it's not mature at all. love is a different thing

I would think the gifts of time, attention and admiration would top anything material that someone would give. A token to capture the moment and express one's admiration, regardless of the cost, is just that.

I think one of the nicest gifts I ever received from the ex was unexpected. There was no holiday, and no reason, and he brought me a bouquet of the most beautiful and unusual flowers! I really loved them. They were not an afterthought bunch of carnations he bought at a convenience store for 2.99, which is what he did when he purchased flowers for me.

Normally I don't like cut flowers, because I don't like to watch them die...but I loved this bouquet. That's how special it was.

Unfortunately, he told me that he had replaced a glass countertop for the son of his mother's friend, who was a florist, and the florist gave him the bouquet at no charge.

Vexing question... I’ll discount the answers relating to time spent and caring in general as those are integral signs of a healthy union and completely unrelated to the pleasures of being a gift recipient.

I view gifts as a sign of appreciation and love. Every time you give a gift, where thought is involved, it’s a message beyond simply telling her she’s special. I’m lucky enough to be able to prove it financially. My friend has never received a lot of gifts nor had anyone prove to her that’s she’s very special. That’s the basis of a gift to me.

And, I’m the benefactor. What beats a confident, happy woman? Nothing. If I buy her a nice dress, who benefits? Me, I get the visuals. If I buy her a nice ring, who does she think about when she looks down at her hand? Me, and the moment. A special dinner? Me again. I get to see her smile across a candle lit table.

Add a little unexpected spice to your life. Give her a gift that’s unexpected. You know she’ll return the favor tenfold just by being herself.

So, my vote is many and don’t ever stop.

Love hard.

Let’s say that i’m not a materialist but if i absoloutly have to make a choice than i would say that i prefer the second one ( many small gift in short interval) cause what matters is his attention toward me and the fact that he wants to surprise me and not really the gift.

Gifts are of little interest to me.

It is not a small gift if he made it. I like things that have a part of the person in them. I don't mean organs though 🤔 or limbs..I mean like his favorite t-shirt, a clock he made, cups he painted, music he played and recorded for me..things like that.

I generally dislike expensive gifts but people do it anyway. I figured since I can't control them, I'll just roll with it from now on.

I don’t really want expensive gifts . Cute little quirky spur of the moment things are awesome ... and chocolate! 😉

I don’t need tangible gifts but I prefer little things that show that someone is thinking about me.

It'd be most pleasing to not receive any gifts but if forced at gunpoint to choose one I pick the latter.

I'll take the gifts nobody else here wants!
I've come to embrace [b][i]my[/i][/b] materialistic side! 😃

Spending time together is much nicer than getting trinkets.

I agree with Zen,quality time is more important than any gifts..

I don’t need gifts. I buy what I want.

Getting dicked well

Many small

For me love & care is not a duty for which you should consider cost and frequency.

Gifts that come from the heart whenever he wants to give them and ofcourse his time.

The latter-- on even years--- on the odd years, I expected a new car.

Many expensive gifts with a short interval in between. 🤔😇

Neither. I just want to enjoy spending time with him.

I am not interested in materialistic gifts

Dont care too much for gifts.

I prefer date nights

I'll tell you what's pleasing to both genders. Not generalising by gender, that's what.

Depends on the woman but in general getting smaller things more often would usually make us feel remembered and appreciated on a regular basis.

Depends on the small gift. She ain't gonna be impressed by no lucky packet ring for her birthday.