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Adogslife · 61-69, M
Vexing question... I’ll discount the answers relating to time spent and caring in general as those are integral signs of a healthy union and completely unrelated to the pleasures of being a gift recipient.
I view gifts as a sign of appreciation and love. Every time you give a gift, where thought is involved, it’s a message beyond simply telling her she’s special. I’m lucky enough to be able to prove it financially. My friend has never received a lot of gifts nor had anyone prove to her that’s she’s very special. That’s the basis of a gift to me.
And, I’m the benefactor. What beats a confident, happy woman? Nothing. If I buy her a nice dress, who benefits? Me, I get the visuals. If I buy her a nice ring, who does she think about when she looks down at her hand? Me, and the moment. A special dinner? Me again. I get to see her smile across a candle lit table.
Add a little unexpected spice to your life. Give her a gift that’s unexpected. You know she’ll return the favor tenfold just by being herself.
So, my vote is many and don’t ever stop.
Love hard.
I view gifts as a sign of appreciation and love. Every time you give a gift, where thought is involved, it’s a message beyond simply telling her she’s special. I’m lucky enough to be able to prove it financially. My friend has never received a lot of gifts nor had anyone prove to her that’s she’s very special. That’s the basis of a gift to me.
And, I’m the benefactor. What beats a confident, happy woman? Nothing. If I buy her a nice dress, who benefits? Me, I get the visuals. If I buy her a nice ring, who does she think about when she looks down at her hand? Me, and the moment. A special dinner? Me again. I get to see her smile across a candle lit table.
Add a little unexpected spice to your life. Give her a gift that’s unexpected. You know she’ll return the favor tenfold just by being herself.
So, my vote is many and don’t ever stop.
Love hard.