I am scared to enter relationship again Most of men in my life abused me. I am not able to feel...

HobNoblin · 36-40, M

Why bother with men at all? There are so many things to do in life beside relationships.

You have had bad experiences, and that's terrible. Before you go searching for a relationship, though, you might try working on loving yourself and realizing your own value as a person. Learn to enjoy your own company, to have the confidence to put yourself out there and to tell people who don't value you to fuck all the way off. You are worthy of being loved and valued, but you have to realize that yourself first.

dale74 · M

I wish you the best of luck on finding a life partner but don't look in a club don't look at a bar don't look at frat guys in college that are always at the party scene. Look for someone that's smart and intelligent look for someone who studying to make themselves the best possible person out there that they can be.

Browneyesarebest79 · 41-45, F

It's so difficult to move past the baggage. We tend to be attracted to the same people over and over. It would be best to seek out therapy or support group to help you work through that.

Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69

You must heal before tryibg for a relationship

Diotrephes · 70-79, M

@sahi81 Chances are you simply don't love yourself so you keep looking for men who will abuse you. Take a break for a couple of years to get your mind and emotions straight.

Missbirdie1986 · 36-40, F

You can’t be afraid you just have to talk to someone, and explain this to a therapist or a friend, and then you can heal

QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M

What’s there to dislike about you though you’re lovely just have had bad experiences with men and abuse unfortunately 😔 you’re great 🫂🫂🫂

MrAverage1965 · 61-69, M

You need to take your time, now probably isn't the time to start a new relationship.

deadteddy · 26-30, F

It’s best to stay alone for a while until you heal all those wounds

zonavar68 · 56-60, M

Don't stress I'm 56 and have had bad experiences with women so I'm very frightened to try dating again. There's nothing wrong with being single and not having relationships if that's what works for you.

Remember sex/intimacy/relationships are such a small aspect of life that feeling like you're missing out isn't really something you need to seriously worry about.

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

Why would he start disliking you?

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