I am scared to enter relationship again

Most of men in my life abused me. I am not able to feel positive about men.

And even if i do find a partner who won't abuse me. I am scared if find a good partner, he might start disliking me, won't like me or hate me or we would break up with me

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dale74 · M

I wish you the best of luck on finding a life partner but don't look in a club don't look at a bar don't look at frat guys in college that are always at the party scene. Look for someone that's smart and intelligent look for someone who studying to make themselves the best possible person out there that they can be.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@dale74 That shy guy didn't have guts to ask sex directlu, that's why he pretend to be my friend

dale74 · M

@sahi81 I didn't have the guts to ask a woman for sex. First time I had sex I was in a college dorm room studying and the girl I was studying with said your girlfriend needs to get you a blowjob I told her I didn't have a girlfriend she said we'll just ask some girl and I said jokingly okay why don't you give me a blowjob. And she was like okay took one look and she's like no I want you to fuck me. And that's how I lost my virginity. And I'm still friends with her we never dated. I wanted to date her and get married she always told me she didn't want that.

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@dale74 US girls seem to be very open.... 😅
I live in India, we r very sexually repressed

sahi81 · 22-25, F

@dale74 yes, looking at right places is important to find someone compatible