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I am scared to enter relationship again

Most of men in my life abused me. I am not able to feel positive about men.

And even if i do find a partner who won't abuse me. I am scared if find a good partner, he might start disliking me, won't like me or hate me or we would break up with me
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HobNoblin · 36-40, M
Why bother with men at all? There are so many things to do in life beside relationships.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@HobNoblin I want a partner.... but can't have any. I never been in long-term relationship. I am sad that i am not able to have a relationship which is a part of life
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
@sahi81 Me either just because I know too much about how the whole thing works. It's really all about reproduction, not a relationship. Friendship is pure, your friends with someone because you actually like them. Lovers are different, its based on sexual attraction and the actual goal is reproduction and species survival. The individual is often forfeit.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@HobNoblin i can't stay with my friends in same home 😅. A partner will give me more time and energy of his life
MPath37 · 51-55, M
@sahi81 You are able to have a relationship, but it sounds like first you need to heal. Therapy is very helpful in healing.
HobNoblin · 36-40, M
@MPath37 You don't heal from knowing. Once you know you know
People have lived as celibates all through time. Monks, nuns, various sects.
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MPath37 can't afford for therapy rn
MPath37 · 51-55, M
@sahi81 also reading in the field of psychology
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MPath37 who ? Sry i didn't understand what u trying to say
MPath37 · 51-55, M
@sahi81 I was saying that in addition to therapy, to heal, it can also help reading in the field of psychology
sahi81 · 22-25, F
@MPath37 ok....u mean books?
MPath37 · 51-55, M
@sahi81 yes