does sw get your spicy or mild version?

people seem weirded out or possibly offended that they might get a more mild mannered image of someone from their casual interactions and find their spice level soaring on certain posts. I tend to think of that as fairly normal; people don't need to know about your wild side unless they're interested in that aspect, I'd think?

anyway, it was a weird post from ago. at least to me.

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Boeing · 36-40

I try to give my real version, although I do edit lots, because I grew a need of feeling the need to protect myself a little, privacy.. I think after my return I am a little more reluctant to post pictures of myself in the public forum. I think it's fine.

I love the spice on this site, the degree of tastes and freedom, that allows all to express, it has a greater scale of allowance for expression and that is something that I like.

dirge · M

I'd think it only makes sense to be at least a little reserved, in general. @Boeing

Boeing · 36-40

@dirge I mean, depending on which phase someone is, it can or it cannot make sense, you know?
I have had periods where I liked to express, and other periods where I just wanted to be as fully transparent as possible.
You see there is a freedom in transparency and lightness :)

But this time I am like this, and I just don't overthink it, I am expressing something different now and this will change again, with the dynamics of life.

dirge · M

@Boeing I can understand. but I also think there are sometimes limiters (real or imagined) imposed on some people. I dunno. perhaps I'm just a bit of a weirdo.

PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F

SW gets my spicy side. I have no outlet for it any other way so you are seeing quite a raw undiluted sexual side at times which I obviously have to reign in with every day life. That said, there's also the normal boring 'mum' side of me that makes cookery posts here too. It really just depends how I'm feeling in the moment.

dirge · M

@PatientlyWaiting25 understandable.

KentuckyFriedFloozy · 26-30, F

Compared to real life? It's just me honestly. I act the same.

Compared to other social media I have, it's definitely more spicy version of me on here. For sure

dirge · M

@KentuckyFriedFloozy hehe. the number of hearts this got before I even saw it amuses me.

CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

It was spicy at first but then I learned there are too many holier-than-thou busybodies and not enough people I'd actually want to be the recepients of my spicy side on here. So mild version it is.

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CrazyMusicLover · 31-35

@dirge

but maybe put it in the back yard and don't have airhorns and light displays around it, yanno?

This site was literally designed the way that everyone could see everything. There's very little control of who we want to be our audience and what kind of posts we don't want to see. I came here from EP and expected the similar system as they had but soon found out that while EP was a big house with separate rooms, this is pretty much one big huge room with zero privacy. Later we got the option to set our posts as private but that defies the purpose of getting the content to people who might appreciate it about which we don't even know.

Hence, I just adapted.

dirge · M

@CrazyMusicLover sure. I guess I was thinking less the casual look over not seeing and the type of people who post more or less the same thing every couple of hours across 8 forums for multiple days.

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Likestoenjoylife · 51-55, M

Thought I was spicy but after a few interreactions on here mine are mild

dirge · M

@Likestoenjoylife like you thought you were running at a 9 and found out your scale to measure was off by an order of magnitude?

AngelUnforgiven · 51-55, F

These people on here get on my nerves. There's wayyyy too much desperation in this place. Its laughable and sad at the same token at how so many grown people are starving for attention. 99% of the photos on here are fake. I dont know whats more pathetic the basement dwellers who post them or the desperate thirsty people who trip over themselves believing it.

This is why i smile when i see so many of the classy respectable women on here, you guys do not go unnoticed. They are beautiful both inside and out and don't need validation to prove it.