does sw get your spicy or mild version?

people seem weirded out or possibly offended that they might get a more mild mannered image of someone from their casual interactions and find their spice level soaring on certain posts. I tend to think of that as fairly normal; people don't need to know about your wild side unless they're interested in that aspect, I'd think?

anyway, it was a weird post from ago. at least to me.

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Boeing · 36-40

I try to give my real version, although I do edit lots, because I grew a need of feeling the need to protect myself a little, privacy.. I think after my return I am a little more reluctant to post pictures of myself in the public forum. I think it's fine.

I love the spice on this site, the degree of tastes and freedom, that allows all to express, it has a greater scale of allowance for expression and that is something that I like.

dirge · M

I'd think it only makes sense to be at least a little reserved, in general. @Boeing

Boeing · 36-40

@dirge I mean, depending on which phase someone is, it can or it cannot make sense, you know?
I have had periods where I liked to express, and other periods where I just wanted to be as fully transparent as possible.
You see there is a freedom in transparency and lightness :)

But this time I am like this, and I just don't overthink it, I am expressing something different now and this will change again, with the dynamics of life.

dirge · M

@Boeing I can understand. but I also think there are sometimes limiters (real or imagined) imposed on some people. I dunno. perhaps I'm just a bit of a weirdo.