Plenty of people with average or below average salaries find love.
Most people are not "beautiful." People who would never make it onto magazine covers as models find love as well.

I don't know you, but perhaps it is your defensiveness about your money and your looks that make you unattractive. Are you angry in advance about being rejected, and are you just assuming that your rejection is due to the reasons you think?

Maybe your resentment is poisoning your soul and making you an unlikeable person.

If this does not apply to you, just ignore it.

But I bet it applies to some people.

Cultivate strong friendships to develop good social skills.
Exercise regularly, including resistance training.
Spend your money wisely so that you will be financially stable and capable of lending support to those who need it.
Cultivate a small, deliberate wardrobe of clothing items you look good in.
Seize on opportunities to expand your income.
Develop compelling hobbies and interests you can talk to people about.

I’d start with whom I wanted to be attracted to me. Looks are fleeting. Nobody stays drop dead gorgeous.

There is a quiet beauty in those that are comforting and kind, or bright, or creative, or funny.

I’ve seen many couples where a man or woman falls in love with someone who isn’t traditionally handsome.

Handsome is as handsome does.

Such a telling question SW. I could reverse it, but I know it's a community board, but believe it or not there are women so beautiful they have never had a partner or even a friend. Friends they needed are jealous of their beauty and potential people who could be their first boyfriend won't because they feel insecure in sight of them.

Nevermind it's a very American question...."if you are ugly"

Be honest, confident, and show some empathy. Any man that is selfless and caring is a plus. Its not even about physical attraction we have to have a meeting of the minds and both be good decent human beings.

Plan and set goals, reevaluate who you are, invest in yourself, pursue an education in a trade, or earn a degree that will lead to a career with better wages. Additionally, modify your personal and dietary habits, as well as your exercise routine, to improve your health and fitness. Enjoy the fruits of your labor.

Show you have a beautiful, empathetic, compassionate soul. What you say, what you do, how you treat others says far more than your physical looks or bank account.

Be kind and funny.

Accept who he is & be Confident about it. Works all the time.

Confidence

Be attractive on the inside. Loving, compassionate, funny.

I think everyone did a good job doing all the heavy lifting to answer this question. I concurr

Work on their interests.... makes them interesting, gives them hobbies where they may meet like minded people and if it takes time at least they are keeping busy

Men aren't judged on beauty. Just dress up and speak confidently.

be able make the woman laugh and keep her entertained. my experience is looks and wealth mean nothing today to average woman.

Be kind

Be a decent human being.

Be yourself, then if you attract someone you know its genuine and for the right reasons

give up!!!

Don’t be fooled. Your looks are more important than your salary.

Nothing really..The standards woman want have grown to delusional standards over the past 40 years. So if your not in the top 7% you are wasting your time..

Act like Bob Ross.

No really, according to the Netflix documentary, he was a chick magnet

Have a personality

Lie a lot.

Get a better job

Lots of sit-ups!!

Become a taxidermist and pick some friends to be together forever

Get a hobby? Idk, there are limitless answers to this question lol

Lower your standards

Your mom.

Fact - till the time you keep saying you're "ugly average salary guy", nothing is going to change or happen

And now for an expert opinion based on experience:

Not give a damn.

Wear a yellow hard hat and work boots plus a high-visibility nylon mesh vest without a shirt on underneath and be VERY tanned.

Yo mama 🤣