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Thinking of getting into Cybersecurity Law & Policy.

Over the past few months, I've been following some controversy on YouTube. This certain YouTuber has been able to get away with Ban Evasion from the Platform and after YouTube decided to not find this YouTuber Guilty and they didn't bother... See More »

Changing a Lifestyle is a Choice

As of today, I'm going back to my workout regiment to 3 to 4 days a week because I can't handle the weight I carry anymore. I'm 41 years of age and I'm not going to let that stop me from accomplishing my task. If it takes me 2 years to do so, then so... See More »

A Confused Mind or Not?

To be honest, I've never fallen in Love with someone before. Never. I know I have insecurities but who doesn't when you think that you are in Love with someone. I still believe that I am in Love with her because she's all I think about but not an... See More »

True Friendship is Hard to Find these days

I have a friend of mine whom I talk to every so often. I've talked to them about my recent dilemma about my Therapist. I told them that I wasn't going to worry about it anymore and I don't want to talk about it anymore as well. I talked to my friend... See More »

Do you think Zodiac Signs are important in a relationship? [I Am A Cancer Sign]

Honestly, I don't think they are. I believe that chemistry is more important.

I wished i never met my Female Therapist

Do I really mean that, Yes I do. Now I have to live with it for the rest of my life. I feel like I'll never get the closer I need to move on. I'm so head over heels for her and yet, I can't have her. She's Forbidden Fruit that I can't touch. Its the... See More »

Should I write a letter to my Therapist when I am no longer her Client?

I'm thinking of doing this, so that way there is no damage to her professional career as a Therapist. I feel its the safest bet because I know that nothing can't come between Her and I. As much as I say that I Love Her, (in which I do), its not fair... See More »

Love or not to Love?, that is the question.

I've been seeing a therapist for at least 2 years now and that time, she has helped me with my emotional feelings and vice versa. She has also made me feel something that I've never felt before and I never thought it would never happen to me either.... See More »

Is there a reason why I can’t tell her that I’m in Love with her when she’s already taken?

There have been some occasional times to where want to but the only thing that sucks about it is that it’s a Work Place. It’s the only thing that’s making me keeping my distance from the situation I’m in and yes I do know, it’s quite dangerous to do... See More »

I Miss My Crush

I finally realized recently that I miss my 1st Crush. She was absolutely Gorgeous. Everything about her felt like she was perfect and in the end here I am wondering and sitting on a bench waiting for my bus to come for work and thinking where she is... See More »

I Have a Question

How would you feel if you aren’t the Boyfriend or Husband Material for or to her? I recently had to be honest and tell a Friend of mine that I’m not really interested in having a relationship or even being married to some one of it even comes to tha... See More »

Why can't I be mad with someone who I like?

Well, I bumped into her earlier today and we both said Hi back to each other. I asked her if she had any plans for the weekend and she mentioned not that much at all. I told her the same. Then I told her that I'm in a weird situation right now that... See More »

Why do women lead men on when they have a Boyfriend and flirt with them?

I recently went through this yesterday. She always constantly giving my signs of flirtations and batted her eyelashes. Later that day, I found out she has a Boyfriend. So I'm like okay, whatever but it really sticks in my craw when they do this to... See More »

How can I professionally ask out someone I like at work?

If there is even a slight chance of me trying this I would but at the same time, It would also feel very awkward for me and for her but here's the thing, she is always giving me advances or mixed signals.

I Like Someone At Work

Personally, I never really allowed myself to interfere with someone I like at the work place. I won't name names but she is very cute and pretty. Met her a week ago and I want to take things slow but at the same time I feel like I shouldn't do... See More »

Why do people ask stupid questions?

I'm not a big fan when it comes to stupid questions that people ask. Even if they know the answer or not. I just don't understand it at all.

I Need a Vacation

As of this coming up Thursday January 26, I am going L.A to visit some extended Family. Finally able to get some warm sun and out with the cold weather for at least 5 days. Can't Wait!! Plus, I never been to L.A before. My First Time!!

I Want to Talk to Her

Well, after having a 2 day break away from her, I saw her this morning. I had to take a deep breath and come up with the right words to tell her I'm sorry for how I reacted the way I did. I walked up to her and she said Hi. I reciprocated it back. I... See More »

I Dont Really Care

I'm going to tell her. I don't care what anyone says. It's my choice to make. It might be a bad choice to make but I'm willing to risk it. I know it won't change anything but at least she knows that way there is no more awkwardness.

I Hate Being Alone

Even though I enjoy being single and alone, I really hate it. It makes me feel sad and I wish I knew what to do.

Is there a way of fixing my situation that I recently encountered about walking away from her?

I want to fix of what I did this morning but I don't know how. I know she is Engaged but it feels I need to owe her an Apology of why I walked away. I now know it was Selfish of me of why I did it. How can I tell her of what I really thought about... See More »

Was it the right choice to stop talking to her and walk away?

The way of how I felt when she revealed that she is Engaged made me upset. I literally thought we had something in common in terms of the conversations we enjoyed having. Anyways, I feel like it wasn't the right choice to make. I really believe that... See More »

I Dont Really Care

Well, I saw her and talked to her this morning. Then I noticed something on her left hand ring finger. I said, 'That's a pretty Ring you have. She said, 'Thank You and she mentioned that it's an Engagement Ring. I turned my head just a little and... See More »

Is it okay tell her as a Friend she is important to you?

Other than asking her out but is it okay to tell her that she makes me feel more of a person than I already am?, because honestly, she really does. She makes my day when we Smile at each other. The only thing I need to do is tell her of how I feel as... See More »

I Met Someone Who Changed My Life

After so long I've waited of trying to ask a Girl out whom I recently met 3 or 4 weeks ago, I'm no longer going to make things hard for myself to do so. I'm taking the leaps and bounds of being bold and go with it. I'm hoping to see her sometime next... See More »