Why do women lead men on when they have a Boyfriend and flirt with them?

I recently went through this yesterday. She always constantly giving my signs of flirtations and batted her eyelashes. Later that day, I found out she has a Boyfriend. So I'm like okay, whatever but it really sticks in my craw when they do this to men. Honestly, I don't think it's right. Mind you, this is only my own opinion of what I think. I definitely have had this happen before but it was at least 2 years ago. Maybe I should at least be thankful that I'm single, so that I shouldn't worry about it (which I'm no longer going to do).

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VioletDreams · 36-40, F

The bigger picture here is that a girl flirted with you. Count your lucky stars lol

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VioletDreams · 36-40, F

What I'm TRYING to say is a day when someone flirts with you can't be a bad day so dont let it get in your "craw" lol

DutchGravitas · 41-45, M

I guess I feel foolish of trying and walking away disappointed

VioletDreams · 36-40, F

No need to feel foolish. She was giving mixed signals to begin with. You had to try to know and now you know lol

Gwapa · 36-40, F

Perhaps,Some Just wants other guys attention?

DutchGravitas · 41-45, M

Unfortunately, she did get my attention and I fell for it. Hence the reason why she was flirting with me and giving me the tell tale signs of liking me. I understand why but she needs to figure things with her current relationship status. If she thinks that I'm going to be the Rebound Guy, she can definitely forget it!!

SStarfish ·

its worse when men lead girls on when they are actually married imo

the nerve

Salix75 · 46-50, F

everyone wants to feel desired, to know they still "have it". Maybe it's just innocent flirting and not intended to lead you on.

DutchGravitas · 41-45, M

Fortunately, she did but I simply don't care anymore because I'm sick of doing all the work, even though, it's always the guy to make the first move.

Salix75 · 46-50, F

@DutchGravitas: sorry to hear that's been your experience. Many women will make the first move. But you're right; both men and women have been conditioned vis-a-vis their roles in this respect, with men cast as the pursuers and women expected to be passive

Madelenie · 26-30, F

Because some of the people were born to be flirty nature, they need boundaries and self control imo.

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