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Why do women lead men on when they have a Boyfriend and flirt with them?

I recently went through this yesterday. She always constantly giving my signs of flirtations and batted her eyelashes. Later that day, I found out she has a Boyfriend. So I'm like okay, whatever but it really sticks in my craw when they do this to men. Honestly, I don't think it's right. Mind you, this is only my own opinion of what I think. I definitely have had this happen before but it was at least 2 years ago. Maybe I should at least be thankful that I'm single, so that I shouldn't worry about it (which I'm no longer going to do).
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VioletDreams · 36-40, F
The bigger picture here is that a girl flirted with you. Count your lucky stars lol
DutchGravitas · 41-45, M
True but she is not going to make me lower my standards for her and become the rebound guy.
VioletDreams · 36-40, F
I agree! You shouldn't lower your standards...but maybe you can flirt back and not expect anything.
VioletDreams · 36-40, F
I mean flirting can be fun. Its innocent and is get for your self esteem. Imagine if no one flirted with you, even the taken ones.
VioletDreams · 36-40, F
What I'm TRYING to say is a day when someone flirts with you can't be a bad day so dont let it get in your "craw" lol
DutchGravitas · 41-45, M
I guess I feel foolish of trying and walking away disappointed
VioletDreams · 36-40, F
No need to feel foolish. She was giving mixed signals to begin with. You had to try to know and now you know lol