I Have Never Been In a Relationship

Trust your mind first, then trust your heart.
If our heart controls us we are setting ourselves up for heartache and pain. Our heart wants to believe all people are good and have the best intentions, unfortunately in this day and age we all know that's not true. Use you head, use you experience and your intuition to get to know someone first, don't fall for their charms and empty promises before knowing what kind of person they really are. Once you've made that connection and built a friendship of trust and understanding, then see if there's something your heart can trust.
This is completely ass-backwards from what I want to believe, but it's at least a safer alternative.
But it's not very damned romantic now is it...!!!
You know what, trust in you...there now I'll shut up.

I have never really been in a serious one either; merely been too afraid. I have tried half heartedly here and there, but with nothing to so for it. The last one I did was a somewhat serious, but she had just been engaged (don't know why she jumped right out into things afterwards). She still had feelings for her ex and should have gotten over him first. Currently, I am starting something new and declared that it will go through no matter what the outcome since loneliness has sickened me enough already.

It's up to you, to emulate what you want in a relationship.
When you do that, you will attract (and refract) like minded souls.
BUT you cannot be a recluse.. You HAVE to socialize to show yourself off.. So think about WHAT you'd like to associate yourself with??
What groups.. What life style associations.. What religions.. What financial bracket... etc..
Then get out there and join some clubs, volunteer some time..

Aww im sorry

I had never had a girlfriend before my last girlfriend. She gave me my first kiss and first sex experience and then in the end, it turned out she was cheating on me.

She wasted my time, so I get how you feel.

I’m almost 31 and I’ve never had a relationship before, real or otherwise. But it’s not because I don’t trust women, it’s because the girls I want to date never want to date me and I’m not ever romantically attracted to the girls who do want to date me. Just bad luck I guess. That or I’m just not attractive enough to be as picky as I am.

Maybe god has thought something very special for you, as you are special too..
All men are not same. Love yourself and love your family. :)
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Best Wishes. :)

Oh, that guy hurt you badly it seems. Both may have been true. He may have been in love with you but not capable of making you the priority. That's what hurts. He was either cruel or weak.

That was not your only shot at love, but I can see how it would make it hard for you to trust.

thats sad. sorry to hear

kinda sad

That sucks

Sorry that happened and hey I never was in a relationship, and I'm younger than you by a bit. Girls just don't like me :( .

oh brother... i see where these posts are going.

i believe i see what the issue is.. IF this is for real.

I hope for your healing to continue.

You'll be a much better person as each day goes by.

I wonder where on earth people like ur ex live I have never met anyone ... would like to

Wow, what a dick

Boy do i knowhow u feel

That's a shame.

I'm so sorry... 😕

Time flies.