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I Have Never Been In a Relationship

31 and no real relationship. The one guy I was with for a year, it turned out he was living a double life. So... Was he really in love with me? Was I really in love with him?
I've erased that from my life and since then I've been unable to trust men. Been almost 10 years... Wow.

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polyandrym66 · 70-79, M

It's up to you, to emulate what you want in a relationship.
When you do that, you will attract (and refract) like minded souls.
BUT you cannot be a recluse.. You HAVE to socialize to show yourself off.. So think about WHAT you'd like to associate yourself with??
What groups.. What life style associations.. What religions.. What financial bracket... etc..
Then get out there and join some clubs, volunteer some time..