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Why do some older people on here feel the need to use age as an excuse to gain superiority over younger people?

JammieDodgerHeart · 26-30, F
Anybody who wants to feel superior to someone else does because they are insecure about something. They are just struggling in a way
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@JammieDodgerHeart Especially on the internet, which makes it even more ridiculous
JammieDodgerHeart · 26-30, F
@SW-User it's easier to hide
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@JammieDodgerHeart Oh definitely
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
Well... if it's all they got? 🤷‍♀️

Seriously though, some people have a need to feel superior. For these people, grasping at anything that gives them that feeling is part of who they are. I think it's a sign that inside they are very insecure.
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@sarabee1995 Yes, I think insecurity is the underlying cause as well
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@SW-User Yup. :)
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It's an easy get out when running out of decent arguments. Age is not necessarily reflective of experience. Some people live more in 20yrs than others do in 50.
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@SW-User Very well said 😄 I couldn't agree more
Nobody can gain superiority over anyone without that persons permission. Therefore, don’t give it.
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@CereBellum Hallelujah!
I'm glad you said "some" people...as I would hope that many of the older crowd would respect that some younger folks have more experience in many areas than they do. That's the key....experience, not age. And even so, "superiority" is irrelevant. Superiority should be anointed, not claimed.
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@FigNewton I'm glad you're aware of my wording lol. Not many people do that
Reject · 26-30, M
They don’t realize that age has nothing to do with understanding, not even experience does. Wisdom comes from being able to learn from something. All ages can do this depending on how much they’re willing to keep an open mind which many don’t, so they end up acting like kids anyways because god forbid someone didn’t share their opinion or consider their feelings enough. Since when did someone respecting or agreeing with you help you learn something new? How about never.
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@Reject Can I get an Amen? 🙌
Reject · 26-30, M
@SW-User Lol. Have people been giving you trouble over your age Alex? 😤 Should I go sort them out?
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@Reject Haha I can handle them, Sterling 🤗 Thank you
CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M
Because they've got nothing else...
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@CrustyDDingus I've never once treated you like a dirty old man 😂
CrustyDDingus · 36-40, M
@SW-User Maybe you should 😈
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@CrustyDDingus If you like it 🤣
NativeOregonian · 51-55
Not all of us do, I only go after those that show attitude and still need some growing up to do.
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@SW-User That is alright, I feel honored and blessed that you view me in the feminine since I identify Trans :)
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@NativeOregonian I'm glad to hear that 🤗
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@SW-User 🤗
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[c=#BF0000]Ikr? I felt like they no longer could do dat once I hid my age range[/c]
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@SW-User I can relate to that completely
luctoretemergo · 61-69, M
Hey kid!
Get off my lawn!!!!
Sorry just Kidding!!!!
I can only speak fo myself but I try to at least impart or em part a little wisdom.
Dont make the mistakes I did kind of thing 😊
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@luctoretemergo Haha you're always welcome to share your experiences with everyone
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Some elderly people think that just because they are old that they have infinite wisdom. They think that they have literally seen everything and have been through every experience.
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@SW-User Yes, exactly!
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
I would have to agree with the others who have said that it's probably due to insecurity, and that's all they've got left to make themselves feel better.

I hope you don't mind me sharing this quote that I just saw. I need to remember this myself, as I know just enough to know that I still have a lot to learn.

“To learn is to be young, however old.”
― Aeschylus
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@TeresaRudolph71 That's a wonderful quote 🤗 You can share a quote on my post any time!
TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F
@SW-User Thank you! 🤗
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@TeresaRudolph71 You're welcome 🤗
jomsim · 26-30, M
People very rarely just talk plainly and always look for some kind of advantage. They're not really interested in anything but "winning" the conversation and, as such, there's not much point in talking to them because they're just using you to make them feel better about themselves.
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@jomsim I know right?! It's ironic because they demand respect and they themselves can't prove that they deserve it
I haven’t experienced it myself from experience on here talking to older people than me but it’s a fair question if you sensing that girl 🙂
Thanks for the heads up sweetie #respect 💋🤗@SW-User
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@Mistress1 🤗 Oh it's nothing
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BondGirl84 · 36-40, F
Some do some don't... but the people that do... regardless of age... have nothing going in in their lives...
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@BondGirl84 Lol I'd like to think so as well
popmol · 22-25, M
they say because they have seen more due to their age, and got more experience they are more wise and know more. which isn't always the case and even so, sometimes fresh thoughts and ideas are better then stuck up old ideas :p
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@popmol They would usually say that just so they won't listen to what younger people have to say
popmol · 22-25, M
@SW-User thanks zabby!
popmol · 22-25, M
[@Alex1610well of course. which still makes no sense.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
Get off my lawn, ya little whipper-snapper.
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@DunningKruger My life will be in your hands, sir 😂
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
@SW-User Bouncy, bouncy, bouncy....
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@DunningKruger 😂 Tsk tsk...
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@kingkyri Lol I thought it's always been there since day 1 of this place
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@kingkyri Lol! Oh you're not that old
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I have no idea, age doesn't automatically make you wiser or better. You're way smarter/more mature than several adults I deal with on a daily basis.
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@SW-User power and dominance and to feel better about themselves that they think they're in control I guess.
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@SW-User It sickens me
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@SW-User well you're better than that so don't take that crap and let them try to oppress you by using that shitty excuse to put you down. If that's their entire argument, it's sad and doesn't win.
4meAndyou · F
I don't know. Personally I've got a burr under my tail when I think about anyone who feels that wearing the mantle of victimhood or special class status entitles them to be abusive.
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@4meAndyou Nobody should feel entitled over anyone
4meAndyou · F
@SW-User Agree. I see this happen all too often. Someone acts like a loud mouthed a-hole, or does something horrible, or is insulting, and if you try to tell them they're wrong to behave that way, they suddenly join a special, protected victim group.
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@4meAndyou Lol! I hate people who victimize themselves the most
FORMERLYbatovn · 56-60, M
If thats the situation with some....thats truly a shame. We are all equal and deserve respect...we arent called to agree but we are ALL sitting in front of a screen and nobody here is in a position of power in any way.
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@FORMERLYbatovn Damn right, sir
Dusty101 · F
I was going to answer with "yeah I know what you mean"
But then realised I'm an older person... 😱
But I'd never wanna gain superiority over anyone younger!
Never.
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@Dusty101 LOL I know you wouldn't. I can't imagine that you would anyway. You're too great a person to do such a thing. 🤗
Dusty101 · F
@SW-User awe cheers Alex,
Thanks a mill! 🤗❤️
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@Dusty101 You're so welcome, Dusty! 🤗
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@BridgeOvertroubledWaters Not all of you, but a lot of you do
ticklerguy · M
I've never done that,I mean I'll tell you I'm older,
act accordingly as required but if you're my friend
then I treat you as I would anyone else
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@ticklerguy You're nice. I like that
ticklerguy · M
@SW-User Thanks,I Think Alot of "Grownups" forget they was young once
XDHyperGirlXD1 · 31-35, F
cause they think there more experience evening though most of them at our age underage drank and did drugs lol and they think the internet bad XD
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@XDHyperGirlXD1 😂 Fair enough
Platinum · M
I've never done that, I'm always nice to younger people...it's some of the middle aged that are the worse....only a few....
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@Platinum Yeah I've noticed that
SubstantialKick · 31-35, M
When we are kids we are taught to respect our elders. Last I checked though, respect is a [b]two-way[/b] street.
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@SubstantialKick Absolutely
It has to do with a neediness. They use it as an entitlement, which it absolutely is NOT.
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@PhoenixPhail Yup, entitlement is the perfect word to describe it
nacnud · 31-35, M
Wisdom doesn't always come with age, sometimes age just comes by itself!
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@nacnud Haha that's true
Northerner · 70-79, M
Not at all. I treat people of all ages as my equals.
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@Northerner Well maybe not you, but some others
Northerner · 70-79, M
@SW-User I understand how you feel. We are not all the same.
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@Northerner Thank you for understanding
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I`m glad you said some. Don`t put up with their crap. ✌️
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@Degbeme Haha I try not to
th3r0n · 41-45, M
Because they equate age with wisdom and use that to feel superior.

Generally those are the most ignorant people, fools of an extreme sort. Wisdom is closely tied to humility, because the fear of God is the beginning of wisdom.
firefall · 61-69, M
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@firefall That must be it
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I don't think I've tried that? Have I?
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@SW-User And thank you, and I'm going to use it here, you are one of the kindest [i]youngest[/i] people I've met here!
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@SW-User Haha thanks
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@SW-User In appreciation I like what I see from you :)
User41 · 36-40, M
Because young people are idiots... 🙄
jomsim · 26-30, M
@User41 Ahh, sorry. Humour failure. :(
User41 · 36-40, M
😂

No worries
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@User41 Lol 🤪
MarkPaul · 26-30, M
Because it's a lazy BS way to get their own way like the spoiled, entitled brats that they are. I'm sick of it.
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@MarkPaul Tell me about it
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You'll understand when you're older 😏
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@SW-User I think a lot of older people are probably inferior anway 😂
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@SW-User Lol A surprising number of them are
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@SW-User 🖐️
Given the nature of my work, I have found that to be counterproductive.
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@Texasgurl It sure is
when you're older you'll understand 🤣
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@Peacefulpanda Lol I don't need to get older to understand that. And I'm not talking about when it is the right thing to take age into account. I'm talking about people who use age just to step on someone younger
@SW-User I was just being cheeky. I know exactly what you mean.. bottom line it's not respectful.. and you'll find people who do that just want to feel *above* other people in general, and aren't really open to other people's perspectives if they don't mirror their own. I'm sure they do other insensitive things to other groups in different ways even if they are of an equivilant age.
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@Peacefulpanda 🤗 I agree
Because I'm old and wise, and you're a lil bub 😂
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@BeefySenpie Ooga ooga 👶
@SW-User 🤨 I feel sorry for your parents
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@BeefySenpie Don’t. Feel sorry for my mom
Jackaloftheazuresand · 26-30, M
just flip it, old senile dinosaurs set in their ways
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@Jackaloftheazuresand Grow the fuck up, that is the kind of attitude that pisses us off.
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@Jackaloftheazuresand Lol too harsh
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Only when I’m tired and I need a seat 😁. lol
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
Sorry people do that you are equal to many and certainly superior to them who try to use their age as superiority card
QuietEd2019 · 31-35, M
Awww 😥😥😥
strongbow · 46-50, M
Kind of hard to answer this since you didnt add a scenario in why that happened, but Wait til you're alot older and deal with alot of younger self entitled people, you'll understand
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@strongbow Don't I have the right to address that issue?
strongbow · 46-50, M
@SW-User I never said you didnt have that right🤷‍♂️
NativeOregonian · 51-55
@SW-User You do, specially since the troll is commenting on your post.

 
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