Do you think pleasuring yourself while fantasizing about someone else is a form of cheating?

No, I don't believe so. I used to date this one guy back when I was 16, but I always had a crush on an older guy. He was so big and muscular. I'd love to think about him in my alone time. But anyways, it doesn't get more simple than thinking of a famous person or a celebrity. Everyone has a celebrity crush, right?

When you're fantasising about your partners best friend or people it's possible to hook up with, it becomes a fine line between fantasy and cheating. Enabling it, and giving these fantasies a direction can get dangerous. But only becomes cheating once boundaries get crossed.
When you're fantasising about anyone random, I'd say it's just a fantasy.

I can't say that is or it isn't...If it's a favorite celebrity or model in a magazine ( someone you are most likely never to even actually meet) then probably not because it's just that...a fantasy. On the other hand if it's someone you know and/or have actual contact with and access to then it's a little more unclear. I personally never felt comfortable with it if I was interested in and seeing someone or am in a relationship or marriage. I can't actually do it now when I am taking care of business...My mind focuses on my wife when and if another woman's image even begins to develop in my mind, and I can't finish with satisfaction unless I'm thinking about her and some of my favorite encounters with her. So I don't even want to think about or fantasize about anyone else.

It's weird and fucked up if a guy is inside me and thinking of another person. It would be uncomfortable/immoral for me, as a person with a conscience, to do that to anyone else. The inability to share a moment of intimacy together would be something of concern. But ... That kind of thing happens sometimes. Compulsively, though, no, that's not gonna last for very long.

I guess it would depend on the someone else, and your relationship with them.
I'd say in the vast majority of cases, no.

If it is, probably 99% of us have cheated and have done so multiple times.

hopefully not.

I suppose it depends.

If you have a crush on a movie star, its probably harmless.

If its about the beautiful/handsome neighbor or co-worker, then likely not harmless.

Absolutely not no. If she knows you like threesomes, she already knows your mind wanders away from her at some point 😉

Only if it becomes obsessive in which case I recommend this.

Lol! If it is... we are ALL in trouble! 😂

Not at all

Not at all. That is the one place we can freely think and fantasize sometimes. Nothing wrong or dishonest about it.

Under the biblical definition that lust is adultry then yes it's cheating.

Kind of

No you can think of the same people you think about when having sex with your spouse. Like Donny and Marie.

No, not at all. Its simply a fantasy, we all have them.

What else would you think of?

Do you mean like eating a full rack of BBQ ribs ?

No...the pleasure of the imagination is distinct from the literal.

Can you please help me imystery?

It depends

Noooooo

NOPE!

Noooooo

Is something some form of cheating. Yes tats it. I got to go.