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It's weird and fucked up if a guy is inside me and thinking of another person. It would be uncomfortable/immoral for me, as a person with a conscience, to do that to anyone else. The inability to share a moment of intimacy together would be something of concern. But ... That kind of thing happens sometimes. Compulsively, though, no, that's not gonna last for very long.
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@lovelywarpedlemon Good thing we cant read minds then huh?
I just realized I kinda didn't answer your question. Still feels like a boundary to me. But I don't want to claim anyone else's mind/body as my own. I guess I would just like to find someone who doesn't need that kind of thing. If that person at all exists. I don't expect anyone to be perfect. We all feel attraction towards other humans. But it's about having mutual respect. And I don't think imagining being attached to another person is healthy, if the relationship is truly monogamous.