Do you think pleasuring yourself while fantasizing about someone else is a form of cheating?

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I suppose it depends.

If you have a crush on a movie star, its probably harmless.

If its about the beautiful/handsome neighbor or co-worker, then likely not harmless.

AnneHoney · 36-40, F

I don’t know. If you are just using an image in your head or thought about someone to get turned on who cares. If it’s because you have an emotional attachment? That might become an issue.@VeronicaJane

VeronicaJane

@AnneHoney with someone that is closer to you, instead of say a movie star or musician, it can be a very slippery slope.

AnneHoney · 36-40, F

I guess that is possible.@VeronicaJane