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Why did God treat me like nothing? [Spirituality & Religion]

My husband is an a-hole. he wouldn't let us have children. i have been raped and beaten on many occasions by other people including family members. my husband and i don't have sex or rape. i have been suicidal since i was 10 and i have never had friends or family or anyone. i am the nicest sweetest person i know. i think i am ready to go now.
We must not blame God for what Satan means for harm. You’re not ready to go. Your life has not even begun. God is trying to show you what life is like in a world of sin, and why you need Him. He wants you to make the necessary changes. It’s time to move on to a better life, with His leading. He knows the way out for you and still has good plans for your life, if you’ll but trust Him. See His side of it:

I’m so sorry all these things have happened to you. God has shown us how evil this world is, with sin in it, and why we need Him. Here’s the way God works. He does not interfere with free will. We all have choices. Evil men, make evil choices. God is almighty. The purpose in life, is to learn and grow. How would we learn and make better choices, if God rescued every person, from every evil? He won’t be reduced to a cosmic genie, to rescue at every disaster. Sometimes these things draw us to seek Him, rather than blame Him. Jesus came to rescue...but in a way which rescues the whole world from hell. Jesus suffered far worse than anyone on earth. Words cannot even describe, much less help us begin to understand, the mental and physical pain he endured, taking on everyone’s sin in the world, on his shoulders. I’m sure it hurts his feelings when people blame him for things, after suffering such a horrible death on the cross. I know one thing. God is the only one who can help you get your life turned around for the better. He has all the answers you seek, and more, if you’ll turn to him. What He did for me, He will do for you.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
You are a very brave lady, you have survived this disgraceful treatment by your husband. The hardest part in leaving is the unknown and the fear of being alone. YOU are not alone as many organisations will help you move and become a stronger person ❤
@nedkelly thank you but they won't. by the way my husband is not the rapist and he has been abusive but it is nothing in comparison to my family and the other people that have been in my life
SW-User
Have you thought that maybe God isn't all that, if he allowed all this to happen to you?
@LadyGrace you have never read the Bible. I have. In these stories about him, he is angry and vengeful and makes A LOT of mistakes. Floods! That only kills the weak and poor. Fires! Seriously, do you think only rock stars are losing their homes? Tsunamis and hurricanes! Why would anyone invent either of these monstrosities? No one would. there is no god. there is no devil. Yahweh and Lucifero were two ancient leaders that fought to the death and Yah weh won. Back in the day, they would burn you when you died. Greek and Roman mythology are much older than the Bible. Hades was the God of the underworld and the dead. That is where this comes from. And i am sure that Zeus and Hades and Ares and the rest were probably real guys and the stories grew around them. The Bible was written by guys that went into the caves to get stoned by the fumes and felt closer to God. I only started this thread because so many of you suggest religion to help me through my pain. It was the religious that lied about me and destroyed my life. I used to be very religious and then i realized that all of the good people i have known have literally nothing and the evil monsters in this world get what ever they want.
@LILY61 oh, so you know me now, and that I've never read the Bible. Everything you have said here is not in God's Word, I can tell you that. But, believe what you will.
@LadyGrace thank you. that is all i have been waiting for from you. i will believe what i will...
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Sadly "God" has a number of get out of Jail free cards to play for all occasions.. In this case its "The Lord helps those who help themselves." If there is an up side here, it is that you owe nothing to anyone, except possibly yourself, as a person. I suggest you make that move and strike out on your own.. If you have survived so far then I suggest you are far more resilient than you know and just removing the immediate load and being away from the sources of pain may be a relief in itself.. What do you have to lose by finding out?
@whowasthatmaskedman you make a good point. but i have lost all my resiliency in the past twenty years with my husband. i think that i stayed around because i always found something else to keep me going, but that is all gone now.
whowasthatmaskedman · 70-79, M
Then you should try living just for yourself and recharge.@LILY61
@whowasthatmaskedman i have been doing that my whole life and there is no place left for me to recharge
Have you thought about ways to get away where you can be safe?
@Mamapolo2016 i went to NY. i was almost murdered. the cult from Cincinnati has very long arms.
TimSummers · M
I don't believe for one second you were not put on this earth for no reason. You are going through all this for a reason. Not to go now. I believe in you and I am very excited to see the great person we all know you are.
Salix75 · 46-50, F
@TimSummers I have to disagree (unless I've misunderstood your point). there is no "reason" for her going through this other than her husband is an abusive asshole.

No one deserves to be treated this way - there's no reason or greater good for it.
TimSummers · M
@Salix75 you are right. No one should ever go through that. 🤗
@Salix75 it is everyone that has ever spoken to anyone in my family. i have been lied about and assaulted at school, at work, in my neighborhood. by my supposed friends. this has been going on since i was 4.
The only place you need to get to is a women's shelter. I will help you find information if you want it.

if you can't work you can get disability.

There is a network of help out there. PM me if you want to talk privately.
@Mamapolo2016 everyone thinks there are shelters everywhere for everyone and they just don't exist
@LILY61 Yes, they do. Maybe not in your town. There ARE shelters. I was very involved in a Domestic Violence Shelter for years. If there isn't one in your town we can find one. If you are near Cleveland, we can look there.
abe182 · 46-50, M
Since you have no kids, LEAVE!
@nedkelly if i had left before i got brain damage that would have been good but it is too late for me now.
nedkelly · 61-69, M
@Salix75 As a financial counsellor i work very closely with other agencies dealing with ladies of domestic violence, it is terrible and the damage that is done can never be undone
@abe182 wrong. if i had kids people would be more inclined to help me. but they wouldn't even when i was pregnant
Carazaa · F
I am so sorry about your pain!! I have had a lot of pain too! I am grateful for my pain because it has made me strong and I understand others pain now. Life is very short. Our lives matter. Stay strong, beautiful! There is a reason for everything and God will help you! Jesus says "No eyes have seen and no ears have heard what God has prepared for those who love Him" Try to get support from people. Most towns have mental health support groups at the mental health department. I go to a free prayer group with wonderful women who help me and pray for me and I for them. Take good care of yourself too. Eat nutritiously and exercise daily. I will pray for you!
Talk to me, bunny.
@LILY61 As I said, I can't answer for you. Renember my screen name and let ne know when you're ready.
@Mamapolo2016 if you have someone for me to contact you would have said already. i have contacted everyone at some point in my life and no one would help me. all of these places people talk about don't exist. you have to meet some stupid criteria and they change it to fit their needs so they don't have to do a thing.
@LILY61 I don't know where you live, so I don't know where to look. And I have no right to push you into something you don!t want. It sounds like you've had enough of that already. But if you DO want information, PM me with a general location and I will look.
SW-User
You can't blame something that most likely doesn't exist, and if 'it' did it wouldn't be interested in you or any of us, its a non sequitur.
@LILY61 There is plenty of bad stuff. There are ways to help you, but you have to want help. Nobody can or should force you into any more things you don't want to do.
@Mamapolo2016 there is no one to help me.
@LILY61 If you are persuaded of that, I don't know how to convince you there is, although I know you are wrong.

I can't give you any more information unless you give me more so I can gather information and figure out the best way to help.

So we're at a stand off. Again I encourage you to let me know when you are ready. He does not deserve to steal one more instant of your life.

I'll be here when you decide.
Bunny, I can't make you talk. If you want to talk, PM me.

 
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