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What was your most stressful driving experience?

Mine happened in the late 70s when my cousin was killed driving on icy roads. We all decided that we would drive to his funeral which in good weather took 5 hours one way. The night before we left it rained and the rain froze on the roads. I drove my uncle's car which had very bad tires and steering that tended to wander. It took us 7 hours to get there and when the funeral was over we drove back. The roads had not improved at all I drove straight through. On the radio the next day was the sad story of a young woman who was killed on the same highway I drove. I guess she was going too fast and couldn't make the curve She likely wasn't wearing a seat belt and the little Mustang she was driving certainly didn't have airbags. The radio didn't say that she was driving a mustang but one pulled out and passed me like I was standing still. 14 hours of ice road driving and I made it home safe and sound. I slept well that night.
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I drive for a living so although I've never (thankfully) had a loved one pass from a collision, I'm expected to drive in the worst conditions while being rushed by impatient customers and other drivers and I know for a fact that there have been collisions and deaths on the same roads I drive.

I just take my time. Big improvement from when I was a new driver and a tailgater made me so nervous that turned super fast and flew off a small hill into the grass. 😅

I'm sorry for your loss and good job being safe yourself.
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
@SinlessOnslaught Funny story. I was doing a 5 hour drive in near whiteout conditions. The traffic was heavy on a winding hilly two lane road. Every once in a while my back tires would spin and my truck would fishtail. My passenger was very nervous and was hanging on to the dash so hard he was leaving indentations where his fingers were. After about 4 hours we were almost half way there when in disgust a little white SUV in front of us did a U turn and went back. I was thinking he has 4 hours of bad weather ahead of him as the weather suddenly cleared up about 10 miles after the guy did the U turn.
@hippyjoe1955 Ouch lol
In a driving rain about 30 years ago my wipers couldn't keep up. Had to pull over for a few minutes. That's it.


But your experience was something else to read... glad you and your other passengers made it there and back safely.
UKNaturist · M
80mph in the outside lane on a motorway when I came upon a localised ice patch. Cars had skidded off the road in all directions and then the car in front of me braked !!! I think a little bit of poo came out. Lol 😆

Instinctively I braked but didn't lock the rear wheels. We slid for a second but in a straight line. Car in front slid to the middle lane and I quickly took my foot off the brake and coasted past it and through to clear road.

All happened in about 5 seconds but it was a very long 5 seconds !!!
UKNaturist · M
gandalf1957 · 61-69, M
@UKNaturist i was guessing M62 over the pennines .....
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
@UKNaturist I wasn't driving at the time but myself 3 girls and 2 other guys headed down the highway in a 3 passenger truck. The weather had been warm that day but as night fell the drifting snow froze to the highway. We hit a patch of black ice at 70 mph. The truck did a complete 360 degree spin and when it cleared the strip of ice it was going exactly the right direction. The tires never even chirped when they hit dry pavement. Had we hit the dry pavement while turned sideways we would have rolled and no seat belts etc.
OldBrit · 61-69, M
A drive down I95 out of Boston on a Sunday night in winter during an "ice storm". I passed several wrecks. Arriving at the hotel in CT the reception guy couldn't believe I had made it. I was driving at walking pace.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
On Australia's Pacific Highway. I already was stressed from having to remember to drive on the "wrong" side of the road. But we hit "the arse end of a typhoon" as the bartender at the motel when we finally stopped described it, which had blown a couple of caravans--campers to us Yanks-- into wrecks, blocking lanes on the modern multi-lane freeway and forced us off onto the old two-lane highway, where I now have to really focus on which side of the road to be on, with sheer cliffs dropping off into the ocean on the side of my lane, twisting turns, and gale force winds. At the first opportunity I hopped back on the freeway, no matter if was backed up, and found the nearest motel and bar.

Runner-up: Sicily whenever a shirt-tail Sicilian relative sat shotgun and gave me instructions. Whether it was coming to a fork in the highway and her saying, stop, let me think!; or being stopped by the Carabinieri, her getting into an argument with the officer in machine-gun, loud Sicilian, grabbing the registration papers out of his hand, and saying "Go"; or managing to get us lost down a narrow alley, telling me to make a U-turn, my accidentally hitting and knocking loose a drain pipe and her saying "never mind, they will fix it".
minoltaguy · 51-55, M
This was about 15 years ago. I was heading East on I40 in my 18 wheeler and just East of Littlerock about 10pm I could see a bunch of shiny stuff in the median in the distance. When I approached it I realized they were all kinds of vehicles piled up in the median. I quickly let off the gas and popped it outa gear and coasted to a slow down. Turns out it was thick black ice. I was lucky that the road was flat and straight. Scared the hell outa me. I parked it at a truckstop a little further down the road.
BeachGirl47 · 26-30, F
Having to stop in traffinc at night during a snow atorm and sitting there for eight hours till traffic could move again.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
@BeachGirl47 I had that happen once, but during the day. I had to pee so badly.
hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
@BeachGirl47 A few years before my drive my neighbour found a couple of lightly dressed women lying freezing to death following a blizzard. They had left the city in spring like conditions but the weather turned bad a few hours later. It got extremely bad and they hit the ditch. No one was coming to rescue them so when the wind let up they tried to walk to the neighbour's farm. They didn't make it. Fortunately the dog wouldn't quit barking so the neighbour took his tractor out and found the women. The daughter was barely conscious but the mom was so stiff the neighbour couldn't get her into the tractor cab. He carried her very stiff body on the front end loader of his tractor. Both women survived although they both lost some toes to frost bite.
samueltyler2 · 80-89, M
Driving on a highway of black ice was also my most frightening experience. Being rear-ended when I could clearly see the approaching car coming at me at high speed with nothing I could do to avoid getting slammed happened twice. That was a truly exceptionally awful experience.
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hippyjoe1955 · 70-79, M
@MellyMel22 I was coming down a 2 lane road in heavy traffic when all the vehicles ahead of me stopped. it turned out the two semis had collided and spilled some toxic chemicals. We sat for an hour or two waiting hoping we didn't run out of gas. It was cold out. For entertainment we watched a moose standing beside the highway calmly watching the mess we silly humans had created. Finally they opened up a side road so we could get moving again. Never so glad to see a gas station!
MellyMel22 · F
@hippyjoe1955 The moose part was funny 🤣 I’d be feeling the same about the gas station. My kids’ father shares my car and he’s unresolved/a tiny bit of gas here and there. I hate it. I wish he’d get his own. Mine would’ve prob ran out of gas b/c of him!
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PatientlyWaiting25 · 46-50, F
@hippyjoe1955 Thanks. X
retiredbum · 56-60
Driving in white out conditions at night
WoWgirll · 36-40, F
Bridge in Florida keys

 
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