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Why do men get pleasure from deliberately annoying women?

I'm asking the men directly here.

Please explain to me what it is that you get from this? & why you believe that stressing another person out is such a good thing?


Disclaimer: not all men, not all women, not all chipmonks! But I personally have only experienced this behaviour from men so I'm asking them.
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SW-User
I don't differentiate between men and women, I'm just naturally annoying.
@SW-User such is life
Kwek00 · 41-45, M
@SW-User My man 👬
Ferric67 · M
@SW-User equal opportunity 💪
BlueVeins · 22-25
Women are cute when annoyed
Ferric67 · M
@BlueVeins you're right, they take everything so personally....it's quite funny.
I work with mostly women, and I basicially have a field day at work....it's like a never ending comedy show.
@Ferric67 so you emotionally abuse other people for kicks.
Ferric67 · M
@SevenTierCrazyCake its playful, and they always give it back to me. If I thought for one second I was hurting anyone, I would immediately stop and be extremely apologetic.
I have a very strong relationship with all the women I work with, and they are all wonderful individuals. Our bond is so strong and authentic, I get invited to their private family functions regularly. I am personally antisocial, so I rarely accept the invites. Nonetheless, I get along with all of them. I'm a joker and teaser by nature, and my intentions are to lighten the mood. My most recent example, I collected a lot of Halloween candy and stored it in one of their workplace drawers. I go around now handing out Hersey bars to my coworkers. And, Lorraine yesterday shared with me her vegetable quiche breakfast. She wouldn't have done that if I were a rotten fellow.
chilloutab2 · 46-50, M
The question would be equally valid (or not) if you interchanged the genders in the question. So perhaps, it's not about men or women but about individuals?
@chilloutab2 you didn't actually read it, huh
chilloutab2 · 46-50, M
@SevenTierCrazyCake I read it... thought you were being facetious with your question. The question did seem odd, though.
@chilloutab2 i am odd. & facetious is my baseline
Matt85 · 36-40, M
I don't have the kind of money to do that. Maybe if I was Jay Z or Keanu I would.🤔
@Matt85 keanu would never
popmol · 26-30, M
i mean teasing a woman can be fun if they are cute when teased, small little animal being angry can be adorable.
but just annoying meh i see no joy so i can't say i know an answer. unless they like teasing to a point it becomes annoying and then it means they have no filter or don't know a line that they have crossed.
popmol · 26-30, M
@SevenTierCrazyCake maybe! but theres also just jerks :p
@popmol no doubt
popmol · 26-30, M
@SevenTierCrazyCake i'm the teasing kind! i mean i love tall sexy woman but the small ones that get angry when you poke or tease them a little, so adorable!
@Degbeme ugh
Your username is apt.
@BiasForAction yes, but that doesnt assist with my enquiry
I am sorry you had to face that. Some people are not worth making conversation.
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SumKindaMunster · 51-55, M
@SevenTierCrazyCake If he knows he is annoying you, he is winning his stupid little game.
Ferric67 · M
@SumKindaMunster speaking from experience, my gf can hold anger for decades....totally tempting disaster when I annoy her...not worth it
JimboSaturn · 56-60, M
I never deliberately annoy women.
@JimboSaturn i appreciate that. Thank you 😁
Ynotisay · M
Maybe an option in how to look at is that you get annoyed easily.
@Ynotisay so i should just be uncomfortable?
Ynotisay · M
@SevenTierCrazyCake Well, that's on the individual. We can get annoyed and carry it inside or we can confront what annoys us and move it out. Or we pick our battles and try to remember that what annoys usually isn't that big a deal if we don't allow it to be. Good luck.
@Ynotisay so if someome came into your space to annoy you deliberately though you'd previously made it as plain as can be that their behaviour was not okay, you'd believe that it was your reaction that was the issue?
very much yes.. appologies
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout thank you. I appreciate that
Viper · M
Some people get bored, and they find entertainment I'm bothering something or someone.
Ferric67 · M
I do it mostly for entertainment
SW-User
Best way to annoy a man back

Ignore him
@SW-User true
goliathtree · 56-60, M
I figure you will eventually relent.
What if .. its payback .. for you annoying them?
@Stillwaiting it's not. I just want to be left alone
OnePatheticClown · 51-55, M
Just because *chews your furniture*
@OnePatheticClown Moon? Is that you?
SW-User
Is it an extension of a little boy annoying a girl he has a crush on? Because I definitely did that, but not since then. 😳
@SW-User im going to run away
BabyLonia · F
Because they can?
BabyLonia · F
@SevenTierCrazyCake they get away with it
@BabyLonia they turn me
HoraceGreenley · 61-69, M
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
Cause we’re stupid.
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
@SevenTierCrazyCake who do I have to beat up?
@Captainjackass i just want everyone to leave me alone
Captainjackass · 31-35, M
@SevenTierCrazyCake I feel the same. People need to stop existing.
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ineedadrink · 51-55, M
@SevenTierCrazyCake Yeah, he's a loser.
Ferric67 · M
@ineedadrink you nailed, being playful is fun...but deliberately stressing out is totally unnecessary
i suspect their mamas didnt give them enough hugs. LOL seriously though. i suspect alot of em aint gettin much attention from women cause they might be ugly or old and wrinkly, so, they have to resort to bein a pain in the ass to get any sort of attention at all. even if its a slap in the face or gettin cursed out.
@YourMomsSecretCrush poor ugly wrinkly people getting called out when theyre just minding their own business 😂
@SevenTierCrazyCake i'll be there in a few years. LOL hopefully not, but, who knows. LOL
@YourMomsSecretCrush we all live on borrowed time!
MethDozer · M
Annoying my sister has never gotten old.

 
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