Why do men get pleasure from deliberately annoying women?

I'm asking the men directly here.

Please explain to me what it is that you get from this? & why you believe that stressing another person out is such a good thing?

Disclaimer: not all men, not all women, not all chipmonks! But I personally have only experienced this behaviour from men so I'm asking them.

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Ynotisay · M

Maybe an option in how to look at is that you get annoyed easily.

SevenTierCrazyCake · F

@Ynotisay so i should just be uncomfortable?

Ynotisay · M

@SevenTierCrazyCake Well, that's on the individual. We can get annoyed and carry it inside or we can confront what annoys us and move it out. Or we pick our battles and try to remember that what annoys usually isn't that big a deal if we don't allow it to be. Good luck.

SevenTierCrazyCake · F

@Ynotisay so if someome came into your space to annoy you deliberately though you'd previously made it as plain as can be that their behaviour was not okay, you'd believe that it was your reaction that was the issue?