You'll come across at least once a day someone asking, where you're from? What time zone you're in etc etc. I think you'd find that info if you visit their profile. Besides, most Americans only want to chat with Americans on this site.
Some have had the experience of being bullied by people who have biases against their countries. I’m from the U.S. and very open about it but even I’ve been ragged on because I’m from San Francisco, California, from those who resent its “liberal or progressive” reputation. So I’ve come to understand why some posters are reticent.
In my experience, lots of people mention where they are from in their posts and comments, even mentioning what part of their country they live in, when it is relevant to the topic.
@Yulianna I have met one person from SW in 'real life'. I was hoping to go and knock on 'her' door but then omicron came along and the UK government panicked and it's difficult and expensive to travel there just now.
@DrWatson I chat with quite a few people. Many of them do not have they’re country listed on their profile. Some say world, some hide it. Most will tell you if you ask. My whole post was nothing except asking why it isn’t on everyone’s profile.
Make no secret of the fact I am from Wales...if you search my posts you can even find the town I’m from.🏴
Peidiwch â gwneud unrhyw gyfrinach o'r ffaith fy mod i'n dod o Gymru ... os ydych chi'n chwilio fy mhostiadau gallwch chi hyd yn oed ddod o hyd i'r dref rydw i'n dod ohoni. 🏴 There are quite a few of us on here.....have had conversations in Welsh with one.
@TheSirfurryanimalWales Actually, I have not found that most SWers are not evasive at all about where they live. The OP is apparently reacting to that info not being on everyone's profile. I see nothing deep or secretive about that.
I am from the US as well, outside New York city...I do not mind saying that. Yes, sometimes the US has done some things that i cringe at, but it is a great place to live and has a lot of wonderful people. Right now the US and, I fear, the entire world, are very divided politically...sad...
You are from the U.S. You do realize time zones are different all over? lol
If I have an interest or someone else does, we are bound to ask and learn. I won't be too specific unless I get to know someone better. And... it has nothing to do with race or anything like it...it has to do with a connection as a friend.
Because who cares?? It’s not like it matters. Just like first names. Besides, so many just come here to be someone else for a little while, why bring reality into it?
are you talking about country or specifics? i had a nut stalk me, found out where i lived and confirmed it using my daughters obituary. i tell very few people where i am.
Many here including me would not like to disclose their true identity. For that, there is Facebook. Little bits of information, howsoever irrelevant individually, can add up for a curious investigator. Hence the shyness on nationality
@Repete you should be - it’s a beautiful place - rocky shore and a rich sea fearing heritage. My mom went on a windjammer cruise there long before I was born.
All the states seem to have their beauty. Not all have oceans but mountains, plains, lakes, or rivers all have their own beauty. Not to mention the people themselves @Jill1990
People are afraid to share much because then it just gives people one more reason to hate.
I have not run across much drama because I mostly get ignored anyways but from what I hear, people hate or argue over the silliest things. So then, people have to be overly cautious of what they share.
no big thing,,,the southern state of Tennessee ,,central standard time,,,sun comes up in the east,,sets in the west,,I have coffee in the morning,,Folgers roast blend ,,,I use 1 roll T,P paper month,could be longer,,names is Andy,,live on a hill,,not that hard just ask,,,,,
@jackrabbit10 Haha; didn't say any of those things, just having fun. Had a good steak last night just like you do; although this one was grass fed - more flavor as well as eco-friendly.
@Really ok just funnying with yea,,,I do have cow and calf,,,,no meds in the beef,,if you look at my profile photo,, that is what i see from my front yard,,
Saying you are from the US isn't very precise and doesn't even tell me which time zone you are in. Surely people from Alaska have a different experience of life compared to those who live in Florida and that must have some influence on their politics and behaviour.
I could say I'm European and someone from Cambodia could say that they are Asian, would it mean much to anyone? Would the impression be based on much other than prejudice?
@SW-User My profile says Norway. But that is where I live, not where I am from. And Marlion isn't obviously Swedish so it sounds reasonable to ask. Anyway, a lot of people don't read profiles, some seem to be averse to the very idea!
For me, it's just about being careful on this site. I don't mind sharing my timezone, and I do feel free to ask about another person's timezone without feeling like I'm being creepy.
I actually think that the approximate time zone should be a compulsory item for the profile so that you at least know roughly when a person's daytime is.
(And then you'd know I'm posting this in the middle of the night 😉)
@AfternoonWine I don't really care if you are posting in the middle of your night or my night; I'll respond if what you post is interesting regardless.
Naming your country or area of residence on SW doesn't seem to create much risk of being stalked. If you openly use email you've very likely been propositioned already by the lovely but lonely Natasha (or Anastasia); sweet ladies who are interested in 'not just sex' with 'a nice man in your country'. 😅