How did you stop or heal the fear that you need to be perfect?

@Baybreeze Exactly. There is no shortage of people willing to be hateful. For whatever reason, that's their choice.

Just can't care about the people who don't care. It's unfortunate, but they are lost souls if they think they're so important they don't have to care about the people they share a planet with.

When you grow up being hurt, it's hard to develop the level of selfish normal people do. In a way it's a blessing that makes you unique.

I have been shamed my whole life and still am for being sensitive. But I see the benefits of it now and just feel sorry for the people who choose to insult things they don't bother to understand.

Embrace yourself love 🖤

And thank you for bc

@EldritchFox No problem, it was a very uplifting reply🌺 And you being sensitive, we need that on this planet..not the shit most others put out 🌼

@EldritchFox From time to time I get that person who just doesn't like me. They don't know me personally, but for whatever reason, that's what I get. And I'm at the point now where I really don't care. Sure, I'm nice with everyone and like making friends, but I see it as there's really nothing I can do to change their mind, so I move on. I try to look ahead and see positives, not negatives.

If we wake up expecting negatives well that's all we're going to get. There's a lot of bad people out there, or people who don't care, and you nailed it on the head. We just got to move on from them.

@WillieT I feel incredibly small , worthless. thank you for saying I'm probably stronger than I think. 🦋

@WillieT It's been extremely hard trying to get away from my abuser as the extreme and chronic violence left me with crippling PTSD, and now it's really hard to find a job that could suit me. I can't do full time..and part time isn't sustainable for bills long term.

@WillieT She wont abandon the other victim of the antichrist mother ,her vulnerable and poorly sister.

@CheshireHatter Good for you 🪻 I appreciate those positive points.

@DragonFruit Yes, that's a great view, change your own parameters for what is acceptable. I otherwise have felt like an utter slave to others whims and trying to please them with me being wrong at some point and them being right, or above me. It's crippling living like this . Ty so much 🍀

@Baybreeze ok it takes time sometimes to develop new thinking patterns ☺ but it can happen ☺

@GoFish Thank you 🌸

@Baybreeze welcome ☺