Some people are mean and bitter because they had a rough childhood. Some people are kind and caring for the same reason.

I am super fucking agro all the time bc I had a great childhood 🥰

I think the people who are mean and bitter are stuck in a protective survival state, they need even more compassion and help to feel safe. They are hurting before anyone can hurt them again. The worst thing you can do with those people is hurt back, then you reinforce their mindset that the world isn't safe and the cycle continues. The people who are kind and caring have learned to use their pain to empathise with other people. They know what it is to suffer. I have so much respect for these people, they have so much strength 🙂

A hedgehog.

If you're patient and love them enough, you get to teach them to accept hugs and do hugging too. In their own way, that is.

Same test, one of 2 main results, yep!!

Im a mix. I used it to empower myself to do good for others for a while.

Yep out of challenge our personalities are forged by (ourselves) stay kind

Difference between people that didn't and did work on their trauma

Yes, we can have the same experiences, but they shape us differently

I was a lone wolf from throughout the years and still alone. I have no patience with humans anymore. It's harsh but it's my experience.

This is true. We learn either what to do or what not to do.

and I'm inbetween.

Oh that is VERY true. I am very good friends with someone here whose mother was actually a monster and who did such a number on him that he feels guilty when he eats anything at all, and he has a lifetime HEART condition, which his C-word mother should have had repaired when he was a baby. Now it's too late. She was unbelievably cruel. locked him in a closet and then beat him when he soiled his clothes. I could go on and on....the things she did...I HOPE she is in a lot of pain right this minute.

Anyway, he turned out to be the sweetest, most CARING person you could imagine. Family is EVERTHING to him...no one cares more...and the BRAVERY...he has SO much he needs to overcome...but he DOES it...for his kids and his partner and his friends.