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What kind of transition are you dealing with or have dealt with?

How did it go?

I'm newly into retirement. It's been a bit rough.

Kind of like a mid life crisis. Trying to figure out life from here on.
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Tumbleweed · F
It took me awhile to transition from working on machines to taking care of dementia patients. I'm sure that's not even close to what you're dealing with. Maybe pick up a hobby or even volunteer at a hospital or a homeless shelter kitchen or something to keep you occupied.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
@Tumbleweed I'd rather not have to deal with people
Tumbleweed · F
@Tastyfrzz I totally get that!!
I am early into retirement too. It is quite the change. Everyone handles it differently. It is hard to go from working full-time to suddenly not working at all. One would think it is easy, but I don't find it so. After many years of nursing and then security, I am relieved to not have to work though. It can only get easier with practice. Never really thought much about it until I was in retirement. Take your time. I am....
SW-User
After having spent the last 40-plus years being a full-time stay-at-home mother, raising two generations of children (The youngest just turned 21 years old), I am transitioning to hmmm, I have no idea what to call this..🤔
It isn't an empty nest because 4 adult kids are still at home...
It isn't a midlife crisis because I went through that after the first generation of children left home.
I don't know what to call this, but it is a transition..😒

So far, it isn't going so well, but once I figure out what to do with the remainder of my life, I am sure I will be fine. 👍
I hope you can figure it out too. If you do before I do, would you mind giving me some pointers?🙂
My daughter needing me much less and finding her independence. Missing when she was little, accepting the change and having to find other places for my energy to go.
Tastyfrzz · 61-69, M
@Notladylike My grand daughter is going on six weeks so tomorrow i ger to watch her for the afternoon for the first time.
@Tastyfrzz That’s an upside to retirement! It’s an adjustment and it’s common to feel depressed. Hopefully it gets easier with time.
dancingtongue · 80-89, M
Early retirement, death of two partners. I found volunteer work gave me a constructive purpose, contact with other new people, and filled time.
exexec · 70-79, C
I was lucky when I retired because my church decided they needed me to work part-time. I did that for four years before totally retiring, and now I use volunteer work to keep my mind in working order.
Idk, I'm challenging discomfort within myself and doing the opposite of what I'd usually do but within reason so I don't burn myself out
LiLShrimp · 22-25, F
Career transition. I’m still clueless about what I wanna do…
Kiesel · 56-60, M
Getting over heartbreak…
I’m still transitioning into adulthood and I’ve been an adult for like seven years
LadyBronte · 61-69, F
An early retirement. Working to make it all make sense in a healthy, rewarding fashion. How it ends up is yet to be determined.
SleepingWithGhosts · 46-50, M
I've been dealing with the last seven months living on my own. It's not going very fkn well.

 
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