wait isn't it you who created this account and was talking with a woman here, your wife, but you were pretending to be someone else to her ?

My wife has fairly frequent phone conversations with two of her college exes. They aren't secret, but she doesn't necessarily tell me about all of them. They remained friends after she dumped them, and their friendship is still important for her and for them.

I don’t. I don’t even care to know or have their contacts on my phone. Once a chapter is closed, it stays closed for me. I am fully focused on the story I’m writing now.

When i'm dating someone I talk to my exes.As little as possible like maybe if I pass them in the grocery store.If i'm single, I may be talking to my exes

You and your X know each other intimately. It would not take much to explore that again. A few drinks, a hand touch, a confession of longing..
Not a good situation to be in, especially for your new partner.

If you are secretly talking to your ex, and they dont know its you, its deception, and frankly, a type of stalking.

All i see it becoming is, well, more damaging.
If your ex ever finds out the truth they will be angry, hurt and you will have destroyed their abilty to trust you or to enough ever make friends online.

More damage done 🫤


If you want to fix a relationship you need to start in a manner you intend to perpetuate....always
...and start with trust/honesty/transparency.

Starting with deception is just plain bad.
In fact, to be really honest - its just a way to secretly gain information. Its not reconnecting - its a form of control 🫤

No good will come of behaivour like this.

And frankly .....something like this is prolly enough to 'break the camels back', and they will NEVER trust you, or people online EVER again.

Connecting/reconnecting with anyone outside the relationship you have promised to respect is best tested by being open with your spouse/partner. If you can't do that then you know you are deliberately setting out to hurt.

I hate talking to me ex as she constantly attacks me because she's a chronic narcissistic princess.

Disloyalty at it’s peak.