If you are secretly talking to your ex, and they dont know its you, its deception, and frankly, a type of stalking.
All i see it becoming is, well, more damaging.
If your ex ever finds out the truth they will be angry, hurt and you will have destroyed their abilty to trust you or to enough ever make friends online.
More damage done 🫤
If you want to fix a relationship you need to start in a manner you intend to perpetuate....always
...and start with trust/honesty/transparency.
Starting with deception is just plain bad.
In fact, to be really honest - its just a way to secretly gain information. Its not reconnecting - its a form of control 🫤
No good will come of behaivour like this.
And frankly .....something like this is prolly enough to 'break the camels back', and they will NEVER trust you, or people online EVER again.
