What's a red flag when first dating a man or woman?

1 how do they dress up ..first look.
2 How do they behave with waiter, etc staff
3 Do they talk a lot about money.
4 bragging is a turn off.
5 cribbing about the rain ,to whys the sky blue.
6 insensitive to fellow beings..animals..
7 being on a date orders the costliest dishes n drinks knowing fully well they don't have to pay .
8 personal hygiene,habits noisy chewing.
Even a few of these ticked sets alarms ringing.

I don't like "dating on the other side of the tracks". He'd better know what it's like to have nothing and struggle for your next meal or I'm not sure I can make it work.

They describe themselves as "God-fearing". Ironically I’ve never met an honorable man with that claim.

Not saying none exist; I’ve just never met one. 🥺

It's not a "danger" red flag, but a "move on, you're going to hurt yourself" red flag:

When they stop having time for you.

They only talk about themselves and never ask you a basic question about your life.

Smoking.

controlling behavior, disrespecting boundaries, emotional manipulation, anger issues and a lack of empathy

Rude to servers/wait staff

Any hint at controlling behavior

Negative feelings about previous relationships.

See how they treat the waiter. Watch how they interact with people who they can't gain from

Excellent look into their character

"Hey, ever heard of a website called Similar Worlds?"

If they're dating me lol

Someone who complains about everyone and everything.

Inconsistency in any form. Instant turn off.

Check if he loses his temper quickly.....

Wanting to be on top

Drooling

hot headed, poor emotional intelligence and lack of empathy for others.

She has sex with her socks on