What's a red flag when first dating a man or woman?

@Younameit Men don't do this. Women do it.

@yestestvennaya Men do that. Its not gender specific.

@LadyBronte They do? It has never happened to me. I have never had a man only talk about himself with me. In school, they ask questions. In the workplace, they ask questions, and in bars, they ask questions. This is what men do when they find you appealing and want to put it in you. Or have something more. Maybe they want something more.

Women seldom do it. They are about the self.

@yestestvennaya You clearly have never met a narcissistic man. And I hope you never will.

@Younameit Where do you women find these men?