He wouldn't work, didn't even try to find a job and spending the money I made like it was candy. While making my daughter feel awful about her normal bodily functions when potty training her. (I refuse to say she is his daughter for so many more reasons.) And countless others.

Since you didn't specify the "what", here is another: job, one manager, who wasn't my manager, treating me like I was trash, and my manager doing nothing about it.

He became distant, didn't want to do anything as a couple anymore, didn't appreciate me

The way things are going... I'm wondering if it'll be the day someone with COPD started spitting into rags and leaving them down the side of their chair, saying "It'll soak in".

Irony is that the exact same person was disgusted when he saw my step dad spit into a piece of tp and throw it in a bin at his side.

Anger. Disgust. Feeling completely fed up with the behaviors. I realized I still had 20 years left to live...possibly 30, and I did NOT want to spend them like THAT.

i got sick

Feeling under appreciated. When I give 100% and feel that I get nothing in return. If I can picture without you. And I am happier for it, You are not the person for me.

Losing everyone and everything I knew, I believed I could find home again.

Paying ALL the bills, phones, groceries, because I was the only one with a job, and then still getting yelled at and made to feel useless.

Lies

There was a bee, horsefly, or some such that wouldn't leave me alone.

when i realized it was not right...

Me when I have made up my mind to go then there’s no stopping me

From?

I was tossed away

She became shallow and a gold digger, I made the best decision ever

Actions > words. And the pattern of those actions not lining up just kept repeating.

The realization that I’d rather be dead than there.

Deception. ☺

When she demanded I pay all the rent, bills, groceries, etc, so she could save for an xmas cruise with per parents, that I was not invited to.