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What are you like when someone is flirting with you?

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@SW-User It depends. If they are attractive and intelligent, I'll flirt back in a semi-detached way. Calculated-neglect gets the most girls ... followed by blunt directness. But being coy is just a waste of everyones time.
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@HungJury
Calculated-neglect gets the most girls ... followed by blunt directness

That gets perhaps the less confident girls/younger girls.
@SW-User If there is an initial attraction, it works for MOST girls. Look, I've been on this planet for 5 decades. Seen a lot of women from different generations and cultures. What do they all have in common? They all desire confidence in a man. Those few that don't are not worth the effort.
I think I just feel uncomfortable and don’t really know how to react to it.
Selah ·
Im just my normal charming & engaging self🤭
@Selah ❤️
Selah ·
@Stark hey girl💙💙💙
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@Selah 😬
bookerdana · M
I'm a charmer of course!😄
bookerdana · M
better take care of the stuck out tongue ,tis like an autopsy!🤪 @SW-User
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@bookerdana LOL! A'ight. I'll straighten my head but only because I got to get back to work.
Woooo that was a blood rush in the head. 🤣
bookerdana · M
But the tippy toes looked gangrenous!🥶 @SW-User
later gator
I don't like it and feel uncomfortable as well :/
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@SimplyLogicalDiscipline Why don't you like it?
@SW-User may be because I belong to a country where flirting is considered as bad, and because of my upbringing.
summersong · F
It doesn’t happen very often so I’m usually very awkward
SailorMarz · F
I pretend it's not happening or like i'm oblivious to it and continue with whatever i'm doing. & i change the subject


It happened today. Lol
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@SailorMarz lol. Poor person. You crushed their hopes and dreams.
SailorMarz · F
@SW-User he was kinda being creepy about it lol had to shut it down quick
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@SailorMarz lol. Okay yeah no one wants creepy.
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@wackidywack Aww, lol.
wackidywack · 26-30
@SW-User I try at least 😂
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@Degbeme 🤣 Qyoot!
With my crush, it feels so special. Others, I enjoy the banter and try to avoid the glares at best I can.
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@Vivaci Lol why would you get glared at?
@SW-User Coz it shows on my face....my embarrassed look! 😳
Elegy · 46-50
I'm typically assuming I'm wrong.
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@Elegy 🙃 And so witty and you just know the right things to say to someone to make her feel amazing.
Elegy · 46-50
@SW-User It's not hard when she's amazing though, right?
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@Elegy There is that!
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Clueless.
I mean eventually it'll dawn on me 🤭
But i often think i have to be so aware of what i do and what i say so as not to offend that person or come across as anything other than me, i can be subtle myself but find it hard to spot in others sometimes 😖
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@Picklebobble2 LOL too much thinking! :P
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
@SW-User Yeah, could be.
Does make you wonder though how many times one thing may have lead to something else if i'd just picked up on it and pursued it.
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@Picklebobble2 Definitely. If nothing else, it could have still given you something to look back on and smile at.
MasterofNone · 26-30, M
I laugh and if there's some witty comment to add I will. Not really putting too much analysis to it.
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@MasterofNone 😁 This time? When do I not win?

LOL I do kid. A little.
MasterofNone · 26-30, M
@SW-User I was thinking you'd say that. The this time part lol. I do enjoy your wits and smile while observing from a distance, grabbing a bag of popcorn. Okay that went too far lol but you get my point.
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@MasterofNone I get your point and I enjoy flamboyancy now and again. It lightens the mood.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
Of course nobody really ever flirts with me That I'm aware of (except my wife and I love it when she does)...however If they did I'd feel a bit uncomfortable, a bit flattered, but still uncomfortable.
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@indyjoe You always explain things in such an articulate and detailed way. I enjoy it.
indyjoe · 56-60, M
@SW-User Thank you, that's a very nice compliment.😊
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Dusty101 · F
Depends how they do it...
If it's naff (piss poor)
I usually don't interact...
If it's smart witty funny then I'm in there... For the banter! 😁
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@Dusty101 For the banter! 😁
plungesponge · 41-45, M
Depends on why I think they are doing it... if it feels like she is trying to get something out of me eg a commitment or a gift then I get kinda unimpressed tbh. But if it feels like she's just feeling playful that's awesome
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@plungesponge Wait, rewind. Flirt for commitment or gift? Like someone flirts and you just buy them a gift which could be a key to your home or a ring for her finger? 🤣
plungesponge · 41-45, M
haha no but in a relationship situation with some women, it feels like sometimes when they act flirty it's because they planned out something in their heads, like "If I act this way, then he'll act like this, and then he'll give me what I really want in the first place". Not a fan.

Flirting from complete strangers I kinda view it the same way, based on whether it feels like they see me as a target or they are actually enjoying the moment for its own sake
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@plungesponge Yeah I'm not a fan of manipulative tactics. Flirting just for the sake of a feel good laugh, yeah... bring it on.
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I usually just don't notice. And if I do notice I'm just awkward until they stop.
nem16 · 36-40, M
I am usually disbelieving or wonder what she really wants from me..
nem16 · 36-40, M
@SW-User Lol,yes I think you did.😅
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@nem16 🤣
nem16 · 36-40, M
@SW-User Have done that before,we're good.
revenant · F
I blush🥵
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@revenant How sweet!
Tonirs · 56-60, T
I never pick up on it lol. A guy can flirt with me all day and night but I wouldn't know. I'd think he was just being friendly and nice lol. I suppose it's because I've been called a flirt myself so I don't realise they are flirting with me lol x
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@Tonirs Lol fair enough. We all perceive friendliness and flirtiness differently.
juiceyangel333 · 31-35, F
Flirtatious
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@juiceyangel333 Lol. nice!
tallpowerhouseblonde · 36-40, F
It depends on their looks and personality.If they impress me I will engage them in conversation and flirt back.If he also takes women as meaningful pursuits he may get lucky with me.
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@tallpowerhouseblonde that's nice.
Never been there, never gave any one space. However, now I am trying to learn it. lol
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@Reflection2 Lol. Well I hope you have fun.
@SW-User lets see but this seriousness of myn is an issue and also, I am not witted. No harm in trying though. Thanks.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Historicly i've been oblivious. Now I flirt back a bit, if I'm interested.
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@Dolimyte Sure. :)
benhailin · 41-45, M
at that moment...🤔
in few minutes.....🥰
when realization hits hard....🥶
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@benhailin 🤣
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@Lostandconfused I am sorry to hear this.
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@Psycho That is strange, if you always get those demographics flirting with you.
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DragonFruit · 70-79, M
Give me a little time....I’ll try to remember.
HughManatee · 61-69, M
It would depend on who it was.
lovingdead · 31-35, M
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@lovingdead But why?
lovingdead · 31-35, M
@SW-User i can easily see and accept things in other people, worth, greatness, strength, beauty, but accepting/seeing it in myself is not so easy, though i can admit i am biased. anything in me i see as just happening, whereas i give credit to other for what is in them. (though that could just be an excuse of self defeating logic)
Im still like a cat
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@Dewms purring at the attention? Lol.
MiraRoss · 31-35, F
I'd tell them I'm already taken
Shocked and amazed.
rickfreeman15 · 26-30, M
I usually can't tell
lost213 · 46-50, M
Flattered and very excited.. and maybe a tiny tiny TINY bit guilty.
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@lost213 Tiny x3 eh? Lol
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HughManatee · 61-69, M
I'm always flattered
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A mixture of embarrassment and shock!
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Haha, it doesn’t happen much to me 😂might as well enjoy when it does@SW-User
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@SW-User Definitely! Its a great ego boost.
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Exactly 😀@SW-User
abooklover · 56-60, F
Harriet03 · 41-45, F
Depends who it is...
Flattered or sick 🤷‍♀️
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Bit of a potato
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Awkward as hell
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@SW-User LOL. Do you break into sign language or something?
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Just start making inane jokes and then leave @SW-User
Skeptical...what the heck do they want to be turning on the charm???
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@Pinkstarburst 😅 So I gather you don't appreciate charm from people?
@SW-User Depends on the vibe I'm getting from them. There is genuine charm and snarky, manipulative charm.
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@Pinkstarburst Snarky manipulative charm... yeah that's so off.
DDonde · 31-35, M
Awkward. I usually don't know what to do with myself.
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I always play dumb like I don't notice they are flirting.😙
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@SW-User 🤣
Sroonaka616 · 31-35, M
Awkward as hell.
MethDozer · M
Flirt back.
SW-User
@MethDozer Haha, bet you make their day.
MethDozer · M
@SW-User IDK, maybe.

 
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