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I never ask stuff like that if I introduce myself. I try to be engaging and conversational about the person, and how they present themselves and what they write and the energy of their pictures. Stuff like that. Never generates any positive outcomes as dating is a zero-sum game.
Pambie · 22-25, F
Oh god yes, I know what you mean! Ugh! They're just SO inarticulate.
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Pambie · 22-25, F
@LondonCowboy Exactly. Not much effort at all, but they don't even want to do that.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@Pambie If they can’t make the effort they aren’t worth your time xx
Samantha2002 · F
For the record, this question is still valid. All too often I still get very rudimentary 'internetlanguage' messages like the ones above from men simply expecting me to send all kinds of sexy pictures, truly believing that they are very special, that their dick is the best one around (and happy to show it to me at the first occasion, hardly or not interested in who or what I am at all... Well, news flash, all dicks are pretty similar, and no you are not regarded as very special when you ask for more pictures after three messages (of three words each). Yes I can be submissive to the right person, but that is probably not you...😏
Improver · 41-45, M
@Samantha2002 top reply😊
eds343 · 31-35
@Samantha2002 good response
Hgingat · 18-21, F
Not on SW
Longleggedlady · 36-40, F
@Hgingat That is actually not true, there are not many but there are actually some very nice men on SW. I have been friends with going all the way back to EP days.
Social media is like a cactus there are lots of pricks on both, but equally they come in both female and male genders as well as some of those that are somewhere in between.
Social media is like a cactus there are lots of pricks on both, but equally they come in both female and male genders as well as some of those that are somewhere in between.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@Longleggedlady Well said and I’m glad you’ve met some of the nice intelligent gents on here . I have good friends here going back to EP too 🌹
Longleggedlady · 36-40, F
@LondonCowboy I don't like people knocking an entire gender, race, nationality, religion etc.
You should judge an individual as you find, I have many faults myself and I a quite sure that I have irritated many people over the years.
You should judge an individual as you find, I have many faults myself and I a quite sure that I have irritated many people over the years.
Missjessc · 31-35, F
Probably NOT
Coffeequilt · 51-55, F
YES!
Wol62 · 51-55, M
@Coffeequilt Me?
Coffeequilt · 51-55, F
@Wol62 Did you ask for pictures?
Wol62 · 51-55, M
@Coffeequilt I always ask for pictures.
aupairgirl · 22-25, F
I see when you posted. Things haven’t changed in the meantime! 😁
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th3r0n · 41-45, M
@aupairgirl there are, of course, intelligent men that actually like to discuss many different things and have some intelligent talks, but women often pass them up because those with lesser intelligence are often very prideful and seem flashy
Khenpal1 · M
@aupairgirl how you know ? you compare an IQ test or what ? 😁
nudistsueaz · 61-69, F
None in Washington DC.
anythingoes477 · M
@nudistsueaz That's not the problem. The problem is truly stupid people keep electing the stupid people in Washington........over and over and over and over.......
nudistsueaz · 61-69, F
@anythingoes477 100% true but that results in "no intelligent people in DC"
anythingoes477 · M
@nudistsueaz Just as the people in Washington want. As long as the politicians can barely convince the stupid voters that they are even a tiny bit smarter than a moron...the morons think they're voting for geniuses.
As long as the scam works McConnell and politicians up in their 90's get back into office.
Despite the fact they have NEVER done anything good. Then to show how stupid the stupid people are.....they start chanting "we need term limits"......but guess who is so stupid they can't realize that THEY themselves are the term limits? If the stupid stopped voting for the inept....over and over and over.....they wouldn't keep going back to Washington.
As long as the scam works McConnell and politicians up in their 90's get back into office.
Despite the fact they have NEVER done anything good. Then to show how stupid the stupid people are.....they start chanting "we need term limits"......but guess who is so stupid they can't realize that THEY themselves are the term limits? If the stupid stopped voting for the inept....over and over and over.....they wouldn't keep going back to Washington.
cutecheergirl · 22-25, F
ya thats why i like girls!
cutecheergirl · 22-25, F
Message me :) you look beautiful. im 17 and into girls :)
@cutecheergirl Hi your very sexy, any more bigger pics? TY
Do you mean book learnin' intelligent or evolved/civilized/respectful men? There's plenty of the first type but not nearly enough of the second type
@LondonCowboy Exactly! I pity the folks who repeat their bad decisions,behaviors...they are asleep
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@fernie2 Yes and they have to keep learning the same lessons again and again . You have to raise your good vibrations for the karma kicks to stop .
@LondonCowboy The thing is...they do not learn so they keep repeating. I agree. Being mindful and self aware will keep Karma happy
Mandyfgrstbhj · 70-79, F
Not on SW! 😂
BigGuy2 · 31-35, M
@Mandyfgrstbhj ...ALL are - like i said to 'Nerd' - DON'T invite me to the wedding
...Oops, sorry, apparently Samatha is Nerds type, you've been blown out, don't get jealous now
...Oops, sorry, apparently Samatha is Nerds type, you've been blown out, don't get jealous now
th3r0n · 41-45, M
@BigGuy2 right right, if I was that cool I probably would have married Samantha by now haha
Trust me I have no pretensions that I’m the stud or desired among women
Was going to say well liked among women, but thinking back actually they almost always do like me, though only as a friend
Trust me I have no pretensions that I’m the stud or desired among women
Was going to say well liked among women, but thinking back actually they almost always do like me, though only as a friend

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There have been like five intelligent men in the history of the planet.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@SW-User Glad to be one of them 😆
@SW-User 5 i think ur being optimstic about that number
LAURAJAYNE1 · 26-30, F
My brother has started at Uni and he is doing well. He is doing Business Studies
Sarah01 · 26-30, F
Well amd funny said, they think we are on the world for their pleasure😊
basicpoet33 · 80-89, M
It gets a little iffy as the years roll on!

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I’m dating one
looking4thesun · M
@SW-User I take it you are dating a man who believes in the traditional style relationship where the man takes charge?
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AbbyS94 · F
Haha. Brilliant 🙂👍
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Lostpoet · M
🤔Are there still angelic women out there? Ones that don't grovel over my manly bulge like it's some sort of trust fund.

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@BettyBeez Y'know...something tells me old Ray isn't acting in that scene. A little off-topic I know - but god dayum.
@SW-User i agree. That laugh is so natural
fiwill2000 · F
i agree with you most guys are not that bright. i would like to return your messages but i cant.
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Corwinnx · 56-60, M
@fiwill2000 It's a really sad truth that many men aren't very bright anymore. I have noticed as well.
plaguewatcher · M
@fiwill2000 I think she meant that it was weird that you could not return her text.
TexChik · F
The dumbing down of the population and the lack of social skills has more to do with the internet and a poor education than anything else
nudistsueaz · 61-69, F
@TexChik Your right about that.
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th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Daewoomatizismyfavcar she likes older dominant men; I actually had a shot at one point but blew it, sometimes you just have to understand you’re not what someone is looking for.
Most women these days like younger pretty looking guys, she’s different and that’s ok.
Most women these days like younger pretty looking guys, she’s different and that’s ok.
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@Daewoomatizismyfavcar I guess she just likes older , wiser , intelligent , respectful gentlemen 😎
Longleggedlady · 36-40, F
I have changed my settings so only get messages from people I have listed as friends to prevent it from happening.
I usually tell them if all they habe to offer me is a penis then I am disappointed and frankly not interested.
I usually tell them if all they habe to offer me is a penis then I am disappointed and frankly not interested.
@Longleggedlady It's outrageous how their behaviors impact womens lives. We can't go out alone at night without a black belt in ...something, or bear spray.Forget about wearing earbuds at night if you jog. We have to be careful about not dressing in a way that "excites" them and when they rape they say we were asking for it with that outfit. More of us are carrying guns these days.EVERY time I turn on the news another woman was murdered by her hubby or boyfriend...just about every crime show or movie starts with a woman found dead in a dumpster after being raped, tortured then killed. It's become a form of entertainment and it's a serious problem that needs a lot more attention but most of all MEN need to stop it!
Longleggedlady · 36-40, F
@fernie2 First let me say I in no way condone the violence of any sort against girls and women, but I equally don't condone violence against men and boys either or against any gender etc.
I also think it is quite unnecessary for it to be portrayed in films,Tv etc as often as it is and as graphicaly as it is.
The answer to that is not to go see or watch it.
It feeds the problem to a point where people begin to think it is an acceptable way to behave.
But as a woman you also have responsibility, as to how you portray yourself as to how you will be perceived. While what you choose to wear shouldn't actually matter it does, once again a big thank you to media, TV, films etc certain dress styles are highly sexually exploited as being what motivated the murders, rapes etc.
I also think it is quite unnecessary for it to be portrayed in films,Tv etc as often as it is and as graphicaly as it is.
The answer to that is not to go see or watch it.
It feeds the problem to a point where people begin to think it is an acceptable way to behave.
But as a woman you also have responsibility, as to how you portray yourself as to how you will be perceived. While what you choose to wear shouldn't actually matter it does, once again a big thank you to media, TV, films etc certain dress styles are highly sexually exploited as being what motivated the murders, rapes etc.
@Longleggedlady Tell me again what MY responsibility is/would be in any of those examples I gave of how dangerous too many males are to us?
EmilyLee810s · 26-30, F
Msg me haha then u don't have to worry about men with me haha 😜 only girly stuff
Jenny76 · 46-50, F
Ha Ha Ha no....
or at least very few.....
That is why female lead relationship are the best
or at least very few.....
That is why female lead relationship are the best
lizpiz · 46-50, F
No
melbeacher · 61-69, M
[@hidden gem here !
Anopenheart · 56-60, M
@lizpiz how do you find them? what do you base it on?
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@lizpiz Very true and I have found some lovely genuine female roses on this site 🌹
plaguewatcher · M
You are so correct point this out! And yet I have found in my own life if I don't act the way people expect me to be? Then they are discomforted alas some people are more educated and intelligent than they look. This is particularly true with folks who had a bias or pre disposition against various ethnic and or cultural minority's.
Sometimes, when I use my full range of language and education, I am accused of something they call uppidy,
I know that females often have this problem as well.
Sometimes, when I use my full range of language and education, I am accused of something they call uppidy,
I know that females often have this problem as well.
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plaguewatcher · M
[@Samanth2002] Thank you pretty bird!
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meat18 · 61-69, M
while i hear (and enjoy) the sarcasm in your reply...im sure there are many on here who believe that you are on your knees waiting! lol!
Sujbftihe · F
There are but few and far between.
Matt85 · 36-40, M
SatyrService · M
BWAH HA HA HA HA HA HA!
Oh lil sister, you got that just right
part of the trouble, is that we no longer value intelligence in much of the Anglo-phonic world.
another is that men are so badly skilled in interaction with women, and thus lack experience, that they kinda lose their minds in the company of attractive women.
no excuse, I just like to understand my world
Oh lil sister, you got that just right
part of the trouble, is that we no longer value intelligence in much of the Anglo-phonic world.
another is that men are so badly skilled in interaction with women, and thus lack experience, that they kinda lose their minds in the company of attractive women.
no excuse, I just like to understand my world
SatyrService · M
@Samantha2002 kik?
Samantha2002 · F
I hate kik
SatyrService · M
indeed, I am new to it.. any advice?@Samantha2002
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th3r0n · 41-45, M
@Soccergirl2016 not entirely true. Martin the first is rather intelligent also.
littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M
Well then you haven't met a nice simple man. I don't lust for beauty i care for heart.
Ambroseguy80 · 56-60, M
I’m sure there’s one left somewhere. 😄
Pawan · 31-35, M
Depends how intelligent you are to recognize intelligent men.
TexasOutlawTrey · M
I’m only trying to start a conversation when I message a girl

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Why do you need a picture?
There is no correlation between emotional intelligence and good looks.
Think of love island , they are physically attractive, but have difficulty forming relationships. And none have read a book.
And as for academic intelligence, where does that get you.
There is no correlation between emotional intelligence and good looks.
Think of love island , they are physically attractive, but have difficulty forming relationships. And none have read a book.
And as for academic intelligence, where does that get you.
mathsman · 70-79, M
What a treat you are
And cute, am I allowed to say that?
And cute, am I allowed to say that?
MasterLee · 56-60, M
Yes there are.
xmedleft · 56-60, M
I might be remotely intelligent... I do not, however, understand what that has to do with what I wear.
No, likely I will not send you a picture unless we know each other better. IN FACT it is a display of my intelligence that I don't toss my picture up here willy-nilly
No, likely I will not send you a picture unless we know each other better. IN FACT it is a display of my intelligence that I don't toss my picture up here willy-nilly
xmedleft · 56-60, M
... and use of txtspk is offensive to my intelligence...
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
I think you have just blown about 80% of the guys chat up lines right out of the water... 🤦♂️🤦♂️🤦♂️ Such a hard woman to please 😂😂😂😂
Samantha2002 · F
@braveheart21 no fun in being an easy target (well, maybe some times)...
braveheart21 · 61-69, M
Oh you baaaad... Such a teaser 😂😂😂😂@Samantha2002
LondonCowboy · 51-55, M
@Samantha2002 We like you being hard to get 😎😍
looking4thesun · M
are you saying that is not the way to approach women? lol

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CakeByTheOcean · 26-30, F
Yes. But they’re not here posting edgy snarky posts.
Dadbod52 · 56-60, M
lol I see we've chatted
djjohnson · 41-45, M
lol. not a very good sample pool for answering your question. (I agree with you, just playing devil's advocate here.) Intelligence is better looked at as a mean of problem solving. The don't seem intelligent to you because you didn't give them what they want. But is that the problem they are trying to solve?
Corwinnx · 56-60, M
wow, it's men like that that give those of us with intelligence and manners a real bad name. Yes, there are some of us who are quite intelligent and believe in treating women equally and with respect. There is nothing wrong with having manners.
manly · 46-50, M
Ahhh...so Lady Samantha is searching for Sir Manly, of the House of Malenessia and author of the "Book of Manly Men"? His 🏇 is galloping your direction. :D
ian2watt · 61-69, M
Haha we are so predictable I suppose...sometimes we need someone like you to bring us back down to earth !!!
Thanks for this post!
Thanks for this post!
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