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Sorry if I'm old fashioned or confused here..


Sexting 2 weeks into a talking stage? Is that normal with someone you're genuinely interested in? We haven't talked about sex yet, and it's been almost 4 weeks. Part of me feels like he hasn't even had inappropriate thoughts yet. I had them within 2 days of meeting him.
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FoxyQueen · 51-55, F
Idk...I've been talking to my best friend (a man) who I love deeply and dearly and over that time, we only flirt with each other. We've talled about rp in text, but never got there and I don't feel it is missing? I mean, if he didn't live in Australia and I in America, we'd probably be a couple.

Sexting to me doesn't equate interest. It equates something else. 🤷‍♀
@FoxyQueen It's play. I think we should be allowed these plays, and you have owned *if* he was not in Australia or you in America. When I'm in a relationship I am very loyal, but I let then my girlfriend flirt and be her charismatic self, the one I fell in love with and while pinches of jealousy came in, in another way I loved seeing how someone else saw her beautiful?
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@FoxyQueen I think some people are incredibly lonely. And sometimes we makes these connections almost perfect, or they somewhere in our hearts are, and they are true in how the bridged some time for you. Its been a long time since I have become romantically attached here, but I remember feeling jealously I know wrong now. It's not even this upon this topic, it's always going to be rare falling in love faraway from someone. It's romantic to find yourself in love but was it love?
Ananke · 26-30, F
Different things are normal for different people. Maybe to some people sexting the second week is normal. Maybe for you it's not. That's ok. Everybody is different. Every relationship is different.
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@Ananke id do it with ppl im not serious about
Ananke · 26-30, F
@PaleandPolluted Then for you it is normal to do with people you aren't serious about, and not normal to do with people you are serious about. That's totally fine! And if your partner hasn't brought up anything about it I would assume it's fine for them as well.
It says right there in your guidelines "two to four weeks" and you are still within that time frame.
But you could straight up tell him you are interested in him that way, no?
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@ThePatientAnarchist hopefully if we meet it might cause some naughtiness
Captain · 61-69, M
I agree with Patient, just in the word of Hello - tell him

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So .. Are you surprised its part of the 2-4 week stage .. or wishing he was doing so ? Inquiring minds and all ... ;-)
@PaleandPolluted Lol .. Wait until you're my age (I'm old enough to be your Dad) ;-)
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@BrandNewMan i mean i have to be careful emotionally..
@PaleandPolluted I hear you. You think somehow an old man hasnt had some emotional pain? Pfft! ;-)
basilfawlty89 · 36-40, M
Old Fashioned?
No! I prefer a Rusty Nail.
Mmmm Drambuie.
Lostlostlost · 51-55, M
You could always lead the conversation
RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M
sexting is so 2,000 any ways.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
So he's not sexting you? Are you sexting him?
PaleandPolluted · 36-40, F
@DunningKruger neither of us have got to this. Im just surprised that chatgpt thinks it should happen 2 weeks in.

 
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