Sorry if I'm old fashioned or confused here..

Sexting 2 weeks into a talking stage? Is that normal with someone you're genuinely interested in? We haven't talked about sex yet, and it's been almost 4 weeks. Part of me feels like he hasn't even had inappropriate thoughts yet. I had them within 2 days of meeting him.

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FoxyQueen · 51-55, F

Idk...I've been talking to my best friend (a man) who I love deeply and dearly and over that time, we only flirt with each other. We've talled about rp in text, but never got there and I don't feel it is missing? I mean, if he didn't live in Australia and I in America, we'd probably be a couple.

Sexting to me doesn't equate interest. It equates something else. 🤷‍♀

awildsheepschase

@FoxyQueen It's play. I think we should be allowed these plays, and you have owned *if* he was not in Australia or you in America. When I'm in a relationship I am very loyal, but I let then my girlfriend flirt and be her charismatic self, the one I fell in love with and while pinches of jealousy came in, in another way I loved seeing how someone else saw her beautiful?

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awildsheepschase

@FoxyQueen I think some people are incredibly lonely. And sometimes we makes these connections almost perfect, or they somewhere in our hearts are, and they are true in how the bridged some time for you. Its been a long time since I have become romantically attached here, but I remember feeling jealously I know wrong now. It's not even this upon this topic, it's always going to be rare falling in love faraway from someone. It's romantic to find yourself in love but was it love?