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How many of you are dealing with Anxiety, depression or other mental struggles?

How are you dealing with it? Have you found relief? How is it effecting your life?
GLITTER · 36-40, F
Anxiety here and bouts of depression. I just keep moving forward as much as possible, try not to look back, keep positive, even when I feel awful I push myself to do the things i don’t want to do. I’ve faced some pretty anxious moments over the last few years and overcome my fears, so I know I have the strength to get through, and that drives me on the days I need a push. It’s a battle but it’s worth it not to spend my days crying and sweating like a scared child
GLITTER · 36-40, F
@Renkon I’ve had some counselling and cbt sessions. I’m due a few more, that’s mainly for the anxiety. I’ve never taken any medication for it
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@GLITTER medications are evil things
GLITTER · 36-40, F
@zonavar68 I agree
[big][center][u][i][b][c=A69800]Sometimes life is difficult.


Last week I have a bad cold: coughing like mad and my voice is gone..so off work although one day I did go in and worked full day so they saw how bad I was. Next day was like should I go in or not..well that night I was like nahhhhh I cannot go in.
They understood as coworkers seen how bad I was lol.


Than sure other things are going on..



If I have one thing happen than sometimes other things happen.


Plus should of ordered and got medication BUT do full off the frigging cold that I put it off as cannot talk and do not want frigging hassle when I go there as they are still for fucked up rules.



What about u? Hope everything is going well with you. [/c][/b][/i][/u][/center][/big]
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
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Many things are delayed in my life. I just learned to accept I'm not in the race with normal people and go at my own pace. I isolate a lot and if I meet new people I'm secretive because it's not in my interest that other people know about my struggles, I try to focus on positive things and the way I sometimes talk about what I currently work on appears to me as if I wanted to make it seem something more important/exciting than it really is. It seems like I can hide it well because most people I know and meet say they would never think I might have a problem with anxiety. But overall, I barely meet people at all. I spend excessive time on my own.

Sometimes I take valeriana extract pills, if it's way too bad I have access to benzodiazepines but I haven't used one in many many years.
I take vitamin D supplements and magnesium. Vitamin D deficiency makes depression worse. Magnesium deficiency might lead to tetany which I wish I knew when I was in my early 20s.

I've never sought professional help but I'm thinking about it more than ever now because part of me thinks my state is worse than I think it is and my life might improve if I took some meds. The problem is that I don't believe doctors have time for people anymore, to truly listen to them and put effort into finding the root of the problem. I'm also convinced I have a minor problem in compare to some and those who are worse off will always have priority. Everyone I know that ended up in therapy and on meds did so because they had to, there was no other option. I can exist, deal with stuff, fulfill tasks and responsibilities, enjoy life at times have fun etc. I just don't fulfill my potential and it reduces the quality of my life.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@CrazyMusicLover Thank you for sharing those lines. It’s hard work trying to make a good life fighting anxiety on one side. The last sentence of your reply is the most significant issue. How can one fulfill their potential when you are waging an war within yourself? Hope you try professional help.
Viper · M
Absolutely

Not dealing with it well, mainly just avoiding it.

Exercising also.helps.but I have stopped that because I hate it :( I need to start it back up again.
Viper · M
@GLITTER I think I'd prefer the gym, just I don't want to be alone doing it.

Every direction around me has crazy steep hills.
GLITTER · 36-40, F
@Viper lol you do realise hill walking is an excellent form of exercise 😂
Viper · M
@GLITTER yes... but it's not good your legs have decided that they're done walking for the day and you have an extremely steep mile incline to get back to home 😔
Coralmist · 41-45, F
Anxiety makes me feel less than, small, and not as capable as I truly am inside. Im starting to see just how false anxiety is.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Coralmist it pull us down and stop us from fulfilling our full potential, isn’t it?
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
Does living with a personality disorder count?
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
@Renkon No it isn't.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@YMITheWayIM What do face in a personality disorder? How you coping?
YMITheWayIM · 46-50, M
@Renkon You are looking at it.
Starcrossed · 41-45, F
@GLITTER Yes they do help. 😊 Some are vitamins to help recover from foot surgery but there's a handful of psych meds in the morning and a handful at night. It took a while to get the right combo of meds and we're still tweaking them a year and a half later but the past year has been a lot better than the previous decade.
GLITTER · 36-40, F
@Starcrossed I’m really glad to hear that, yes I hear you have to try a few out before you get the ones that suit you best. It’s a painful process so well done for sticking with it. I’m glad it’s made a difference over the last year 🤗
Renkon · 36-40, M
Reflection2 · 36-40, M
Stress and I know the reasons. It will go away when these reason go away. As for normal stresses, I tend to enjoy them as they drive me to work hard.
Going out on a limb.....bit judging by the posts and comments, it seems like that would be about 97-98% of everyone on SW.
Detrimentalpineapple · 22-25, F
I cry then i cry . Then i cry. feeling like the only people that could love me is my biological family.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
@Detrimentalpineapple It is definitely horrible to feel nobody else can ever love/care/empathise and show affection to you except you and maybe your close family. I know that my kids love me and I love them, but it's not adult romantic type love it's parental love which is different.
Iwillwait · M
I struggle sometimes daily.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Iwillwait what is the solution for this date?
Iwillwait · M
@Renkon Stay calm, be rational and seek council if you're second guessing.
zonavar68 · 51-55, M
caccoon · 36-40
Everyone is.

Friends and support from friends is the best remedy and/or lead to solace
Renkon · 36-40, M
@caccoon Do we need clinical support?
caccoon · 36-40
@Renkon it's not for me to say
Renkon · 36-40, M
@caccoon hmm…yup.
Chickie · F
How many accounts so you have? I have seen at least two profile similar to yours
Renkon · 36-40, M
@Chickie Just one.
I did some drawing/painting today.
Renkon · 36-40, M
@V00doo does it help?
@Renkon Yep
Renkon · 36-40, M
@V00doo Happy for you

 
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