I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I know you’re overwhelmed, but please don’t rush into selling the house. A home is a fixed asset and, once sold, it may be very difficult to replace.
Sometimes we have to struggle quietly to protect the things that give us security. Please give yourself time and explore every option before giving up your home.


A wise man once said, “No one sees what you had to go without, but everyone sees where you live.”

Because sometimes, protecting your dignity and self-respect despite all the hardships is just as important as getting through them.

Hello lovely lady. I'm so sorry you're struggling so much. I think anxiety must be part of grieving. I have felt it a lot too. Especially at night when there's no distraction, I know that's when my mind tends to wander the most. It's a massive adjustment losing the person who was your love and your main source of support so it's not really surprising.

Did you know you are entitled to a bereavement benefit? It is really easy to claim this, you just need to show your marriage certificate and your husband's death certificate. It is well worth claiming as it's up to £350 a month if you have children and £250 if you don't. I hope this relieves some of the anxiety. Xx

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Call your local housing for homeless the social workers have already screened people for properties seniors are the best like age 60

maybe you can keep the house and rent out a room or part of the house?

Whereabouts are you from?
Also I’m sorry for your loss. Hugs.

Are there any online jobs you can apply for? I know there are a lot of options and there's a higher chance of your application being accepted when applying to both online and in person jobs (only a suggestion, please do whatever you feel comfortable with. I wish you the best, and I truly mean this ❤)

Oh my. You’re going through something I can’t and don’t want to imagine.

I am so very sorry for your loss.

I understand you are now dealing with challenges that you always thought you would tackle as a team together. They must seem so much bigger.

Please take care of yourself, allow your self time and protect yourself from those daily things that drag us down. I don’t believe you will ever “go back to normal”. But I hope you find a job that’s right for you soon, and you find some semblance of peace.

Keep your friends and family close, and talk whenever you feel the need.

Is there anyone or any assistance programs you can use?

Sorry you are dealing with all of this uncertainty after a major loss ☹