Today is my dad’s birthday - his first since he passed away.The past few days have been extra rough just anticipating today. Thinking about how we would have spent it with him, how he would have insisted on no gifts, and how he would have cried while reading his cards. How he’s no longer here. The events... See More »
Who are you missing today?And although my secret's gone I'll try to carry on If I must, I'll get along Without you (1)
I should try to write a book about all the stupid things you shouldn't say to somebody who's grievingThe latest one is" find yourself"... What profound wisdom ! I'll just find myself and I'll never be sad my husband died again! Of all the useless tripe I've been advised that's just the dumbest.
For those who have lost someone near do you get tired of people saying"They probably meant it for the best." After you are legitimately upset by a very insensitive comment? I wish their "best" was keeping silent, myself.
Why can't people just be silent?So many stupid comments you get when you are grieving, the stupidest is "Don't be sad or lonely, because..."
I am not that kind of lonelyI miss my husband. The hurt of not having anyone to talk to every day is the worst. I don't want a replacement. Just a place for my thoughts to go. I need to get out and get involved in something, I probably need thearphy.
