A Grief Observed (1961) by C.S. LewisA true artist creates art that inspires, helps and furthers others in the progress through life. This morning my eldest cat had a happy encounter with the newest one. Although newbie is still very shy, she's been with us one month now, she... See More »
Living In The Too QuietIt's hard not to go crazy in this quiet Just when I think I am adjusting I realize that I'm not doing that well. Whatever "that well" means. I want somebody to talk to and not some idiot who just wants to use me. I suppose, I need somebody who's... See More »
The Sound of SilenceI think, I'm getting use to sitting here with my own thoughts. Honestly, that was the most devastating thing. You don't know how much of your time is taken up with talking until you lose your partner and you're no longer saying things like "drive... See More »
When you grief...When you grief ... Be patient and gentle with yourself. Listen to your spirit, mind and body ... Tend to these inner messages, and grant yourself what you need when you can. Rest, silence, company, help ... Allow your feelings to flow. They may... See More »
Grief has to turn into anger at some point.I think it is just another stage towards acceptance. I think it makes is easier to accept fate if we find someone to blame for it. Reading some anecdotes online from my cultural community, about people who fought to be with their partners for years... See More »
No Comfort in the FamiliarI don't go there anymore Not one person came to the memorial Not one person has called asking me how I am They all wanted to small talk Just like nothing happened Watched me cry in the pew without asking me anything All but one old lady who hugged... See More »
It's Alright To GrieveLet's sit here in the dark Letting it all out Refusing to be anything but real I won't judge you If you scream to the sky asking why I won't wipe the tears from your face I won't tell you everything is going to be okay I won't scold you for being... See More »
